J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Homes

Spates, Hedwig H.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Hedwig H. Spates, 74, of Hopewell, passed away Sunday October 11, 2009 surrounded by her loving family. She was the daughter of the late Wilhelm & Hedwig Goelz Maendle. Hedwig was a member of the Women of the Moose Hopewell Lodge and the German club for over 30 years. She is survived by her loving husband of 54 years, Ernest Spates, children; Isolde Williams of Hopewell, Ellen Dawson, of South Carolina, Doris Carter & husband Robert of Goodyear Arizona, Ernest Junior Spates & wife Shelly, Tricia Carden & husband Jared all of Prince George, grandchildren; Tony Dawson, Krissy Smith & husband Timmy, Jennifer Knight & husband Sean, Michelle & Misty Dawson, Kathy Amos & husband Kenny, Daniel & Matthew Williams, Christopher & Justin Spates, Brianna Carter, Hunter, Dylan & Ryan Carden, 12 great-grandchildren, brother; Dieter Maendle & wife Leslie, sister; Renate Rohr both of Germany, numerous nieces & nephews. The family will receive friends at the Hopewell Chapel of J.T.Morriss & Son Funeral Home on Tuesday October 13, 2009 from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM. A funeral service will be held in the funeral home chapel on Wednesday October 14 at 10:00 AM. Interment will be in Southlawn Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the Massey Cancer Center P.O. Box 980214 Richmond, Virginia 23298. Condolences may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com.

Dear Sodie, Trica, Ernie, and families, I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. I only wish I had know sooner to support you at this time. Please do know that time will help. As others have said, one day the memories will bring laughter and smiles to your face as you recall something that she said or did to bring happiness to you and yours. She will be truely missed. If there is any thing I can do for you please let me know. Love you guys, Martha

Posted by: Martha Staples at October 18, 2009 08:39 PM

Mr. Spates, and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Your mom was a very special lady, we will always remember her and her kindness you showed us over the years. God bless. Love, The Hoovers (Larry, Ruby, Jesse and Betsy)

Posted by: Ruby Hoover at October 15, 2009 11:28 AM

Ernie, Shelly, Christopher and Justin,
Our deepest sympathy and sorry are with you
for your tremendous lose. Your memories will
be forever and give you strength, in the future.

Our deepest love for the Spates family

Posted by: Pappy and Grammy at October 14, 2009 09:16 AM

Tricia, Sodie, and families,

So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. We know first hand just how much you will miss her. I promise there will come a time when the memories will bring smiles, and even laughter, instead of tears. Please know that we are thinking about and praying for you all.

Much love...Pam, Bobby, Zach and Brooke Winne

Posted by: Pam, Bobby, Zach and Brooke Winne at October 14, 2009 02:05 AM

Ernie, Shelly, Chris & Justin,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. We know that you will always hold your dear memories close. They keep us going everyday. Ernie, you were there for me when Derek was sick and now I am letting you know that I am here for you. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. Hugs and Kisses to you all......we miss you and love you ;)

Posted by: Derek, Beth, Andrew & Kyle Gaskin at October 13, 2009 08:52 PM

Sodie, Tricia, and Family-
We are so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Know that you are surrounded by friends who care and will pray for all of you. Best of all, know that God embraces each of you and will provide comfort at this difficult time.

Chris and Pam Sutton

Posted by: Pam & Chris Sutton at October 13, 2009 11:20 AM

Tricia & family, We are so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort knowing she is no longer suffering. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Sincerely - Mark & Carrie Godfrey

Posted by: Carrie Godfrey at October 13, 2009 10:29 AM

Dear Spates Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. If their is anything we can do let us know. You all are in our prayers.

Sincerely,

Robert Pelter and Family and Nancy Pelter

Posted by: Robert at October 13, 2009 09:51 AM

Ernie, Tricia and family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know anything was going on. I saw her over the summer with family from out of town. Please know I feel your pain and am here for you. With deepest sympathy, Vickie

Posted by: Vickie Jones at October 13, 2009 08:58 AM

To the Spates Family,
I am so sorry Hedy will not be with us anymore.I always enjoyed talking to her in our "Schwaebisch" dialect at the German Klub meetings. We will miss her very much.
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to her Husband and family.
Lotte Bach

Posted by: Lotte Bach at October 13, 2009 08:15 AM

Ernie, Shelly, Christopher and Justin,
We send our deepest sympathy. It's so hard to lose a loved one. Just cherish the loving memories and special times you've shared. Please know that you're all in our thoughts and prayers. May each day bring more peace and comfort to your loss.
Love,
Amy and Nick

Posted by: Amy and Nick Mars at October 12, 2009 09:13 PM

Sodie, Trisha, Ernie, and family,
We send our sympathy to you in the loss of your mom. You will solely miss her presence especially during the upcoming holidays but don't you know, those German recipes will certainly be somewhere on your tables! She has left a long legacy to you and her grandchildren. You are blessed with good memories throughout the years so keep those memories alive. May the Lord's comfort heal your hearts and give you peace. We are praying for you and your families during this time.
Love, Gay and Chuck Weston

Posted by: Gay & Chuck Weston at October 12, 2009 04:36 PM

To The Spates Family,
We are all saddened to hear of your mother's/grandmother's passing. We know the memories you shared with her will bring you much joy and comfort in the days and weeks to come. Our thought and prayers are with you.

Sincerly,
Bobby,Cheryl,Ashley and Jordyn Lane

Posted by: Bobby and Cheryl Lane at October 12, 2009 03:42 PM

Dear Tricia,Jared and boys, I had not heard about your mom until Sat afternoon when I was painting at church........I am so,so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Losing our parents is so hard.........Something I have dreaded all my life. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Happy memories will replace the grief and the Lord gets us through the grief. God bless, Pam and Ted Breeden

Posted by: Pam and Ted Breeden at October 12, 2009 03:41 PM

Tricia and Jared, So sorry to hear about your mom. We are thinking of you and praying for you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do

Posted by: Tracey and Tony Staton at October 12, 2009 01:23 PM