J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Homes

Stallard, Cody L.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Wakefield VA
Cody Lewis Stallard, 16, died Saturday Jan. 31, 2009 in Southampton County. He was the son of Kenneth L. & Tracey Harrell Stallard and a junior at Southampton High School. He is also survived by his sister, Kelly Anne Stallard; grandparents, Charles & Judy Stallard of Ivor, Melvin & Kathy Harrell of Jarratt and Lorene W. Cook of Wakefield; his great grandmother, Evelyn Harrell of Jarratt; his aunt, Barbara Stallard of Springfield; his uncle, M. Todd Harrell and his wife Amy of Prince George; cousins, Brandon & Carson Harrell; his girlfriend, Morgan Hulker of Courtland and several cousins and step-cousins. Cody was pre-deceased by his grandmother Clara Raiford Baines and grandfather Clyde “Pete” Cook.
Cody was a well-liked, hard-working, well-mannered young man. He was known as the “handyman” of the Berlin community because of his willingness to say “yes” when called by his neighbors to help out with yard work and odd jobs. He was an avid outdoorsman and he was always finding an excuse to drive his black Chevy truck. He spent his weekends coon hunting and also loved to deer hunt with the Bent Barrel Hunt Club. He was employed as a groundskeeper at the Southeastern Regional 4-H Center, Wakefield. He loved to ride his motorcycle and was a two-time state champion in the Virginia Cross Country Series. He spent many hours cutting grass and he was good with his hands. He was a member of the Millfield Baptist Church, Wakefield and was an active member of the Millfield Youth Group and the church softball team. He ran the sound equipment of the church during services.
Cody was loved and admired by his parents and family. He was a good boy and never met a stranger. His sudden loss has shocked and saddened his family and his community. Cody’s love of life and free spirit will be sorely missed.
A Celebration of Cody’s Life will be held at Millfield Baptist Church, Wakefield on Thursday Feb. 5, 2009 at 2:00 PM by the Rev. Jay Butcher. Burial will be in the church cemetery. The family will receive friends at the church on Wed. evening from 6:00 – 8:00 PM. Memorial donations may be made in Cody’s memory to Millfield Baptist Church Youth Group, 31389 Millfield Road, Wakefield VA 23888. Arrangements are being handled by the Purviance Chapel, J. T. Morriss & Son, Wakefield. Condolences may be posted at www.jtmorriss.com.

Kenneth, Tracey & family, My heart just sank when my husband was reading the newspaper and starting reading aloud the funeral notice and said Cody Lewis Stallard. Although, I did not recognize your sons name, I did the last name. I told him I went to school with Kenneth. Then he read aloud the son of Kenneth & Tracey. I got chills and a sick feeling in my stomach. I am so very sorry for your loss. I could not even begin to imagine losing my daughter (only child) who is the same age as your son. It's obvious your a very loving and strong family. I hope your love and faith will keep you strong always. I used to work at Essex Bank w/Marion and she would show me pics of you guys and tell me how you were doing. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. May you find peace and happiness again soon.

Posted by: Tammy Reickard Jasper at February 19, 2009 11:57 AM

To The Stallard family,we are so sorry about your loss. AJ and Cody went to school together and I know the night of the accident. AJ had called us as he was arriving up to the accident as the officers were surrounding the area. Aj knew who it was but was surprised to hear the next day Cody did not make it. I personally did not know Cody but I do remember passing him with a smile on his face. Cody is in Gods hands now. Cody's tragedy has left a chill going up my body because I know him and Aj are the same age. Your family is in our prayers.
Bill Barbara Myers, Toney and Aj Brock

Posted by: Bill & Barbara Myers&AJ Brock at February 8, 2009 01:12 AM

I have been praying for you guys and so have my parents well i love Cody he was a great guy he was on on my bestfriends i enjoyed moment with him I loved the bus he loved to joke on all the dumb stuff i said he is truly a great you and i will be thinking about you guys and keeping you in my prayers
love,
Meg

Posted by: Meg sharp at February 7, 2009 08:27 PM

Wayne and I are so sorry to hear about your son. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are for you and your family at this time. Wayne and Jane Rock

Posted by: jane perrou rock at February 6, 2009 09:12 PM

My memories of Cody are of a "little man" who attended the Wakefield United Methodist Church Preschool, about 12 years ago. What a precious angel and I remember well his cute smile. Over the years I would see Cody ocassionally at the 4-H Center and your family when we played against each other at church softball (your team almost always won :) ) Your faith, love and strength as a family impressed me from the first time we met as you were always so dedicated to God and family. I have supported "Kelly's Angels" many times and remeber well Kelly's time with us at the preschool and how we would pray God's healing for her. What a lovely young lady she has become! As a mother, my heart aches for each of you and as a Christian I rejoice that Cody is with our Lord!!!
Cody will be missed, but not forgotten. And your family will continue to be a light for all of us to see - the strength of each of you at the service was overwhelming to me.
May God's love and peace surround you for all the days ahead and know that I am only a call away.
Love in Christ,
Brenda, WUMC Preschool Director and a mom

Posted by: Brenda Faison at February 6, 2009 03:47 PM

Kenneth, Tracey and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in your memories of Cody and in the love of your family and friends.
Ada Mae and Linda

Posted by: Linda Newsome at February 5, 2009 08:57 PM

What an amazing tribute to Cody! Today's service was heartbreaking, but it was also an incredible display of love, gratitude, faith, and support. Tracey expressing her good fortune of being picked by God as Cody's mom was so like Tracey Stallard. She is an amazing person and mother. Kelley's letter to her brother who did not always share his matchbox cars, but always had room for her in his heart, was so, so sweet and brave. The story of Kenneth changing Cody's diaper on a tailgate gave insight to why Cody turned out to be Cody. I know it won't be easy. But if I ever had to face what the Stallard family now face, I'd feel lucky to have their faith and friends. Godspeed, little man, indeed. Bless you all.

Love,

Amy

Posted by: Amy McCracken at February 5, 2009 07:20 PM

Kenny, Tracey, and Kelly Ann, I am deeply sadden by the sudden loss of Cody. Although I did not know him well, he seemed like a well mannered young man. He is now an angel watching over all of his loved ones. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Kim Marston at February 5, 2009 04:59 PM

Kenny, Tracy and Kelly,

Words cannot express my sorrow for your family at this difficult time. I did not know Cody but from what I have read today he must of been a remarkable young man. You should be very proud of the way he touched so many lives and made a lasting impression. May God Bless your family and keep you all safe.

Posted by: David Grove at February 5, 2009 03:51 PM

To the Stallard Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Cody. He was such a wonderful guy. And he always knew how to put a smile on your face. I don't think a day ever went by that he was not walking down the hallway smiling. He has made a big impact on many peoples lives. My sympathy is with you and your family. May God be with you.

Posted by: Ashley Avent at February 5, 2009 03:25 PM

Just want to send my condolences to everyone. My parents and brother will be at the funeral, but unfortunately I will be unable to attend since I am away at school. I am so very sorry for the loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Morgan Bailey

Posted by: Morgan Bailey at February 5, 2009 01:12 PM

Dear Tracey and Family,

There are no words that can express how heart broken I am to hear of your loss. I wish there was something I could say that would lessen the pain you are feeling right now. I would like to share this poem with you. It was read at my step son's services. After time we found some comfort in it.

"Do not stand at my grave and weep:
I am not there I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet
birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die."

'unknown author'

Cody will always be protected by God's loving arms. I pray that God gives you the comfort and strenght you need to get though this difficult time. I know it won't be easy but keep the faith...God is always there for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

With love always

Posted by: Diane Harper at February 5, 2009 01:00 PM

Dear Kenneth,Tracey,Kelly,Aunt Lorene,Todd,Amy,and the extended family on both sides,

There are no words to express the shock and sadness we feel over the tragic death of Cody. You all have been in our prayers and thoughts since I heard the shocking news. May your memories of Cody be sweet and everlasting.Please accept our deepest sympathy.

So much love is sent your way. I will be in touch.

Jim, Lynne, and RJ Southwell

Posted by: Jim, Lynne, & RJ Southwell at February 5, 2009 11:57 AM

Kenny, Tracey, Kelly and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of Cody's sudden passing. He is now an angel looking down on all of us. He will always be missed. He was a wonderful young man and a very hard worker. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers forever and always. Please keep your Faith strong and all of the memories alive. Billy and I are always available if you would like to talk.

Posted by: Martha, Billy, Bobby, Faith Galloway and Ashley Massey at February 5, 2009 11:13 AM

Kenneth, Tracey, and Kelly,

I am so so sorry for the immense pain you must be going through. My memories of Cody are fond--an eversmiling, always polite boy of curiosity and friendliness, who loved his family, his church, and his God. I pray that God will comfort you with fond memories and assurance that you will be with Cody in body again, and that in the mean time his spiritual presence, and the presence of God's Holy Spirit, will always be with you. Take care, and may God bless you with an outpouring of love and support in the weeks, months and years ahead.

Posted by: Steve McGlamery at February 5, 2009 08:05 AM

We want to send our sincere condolences to all of your family. Our prayers are with you and of these difficult days again. Sean and Sonya Adkins

Posted by: Sean and Sonya Adkins at February 4, 2009 09:35 PM

Kenny, Tracey and Kellybug,
WOW, what a shock. My little buddy taken from us all. I love Cody so much and can not believe he is not here with us in body. I do know he is in heaven. I now have a special angel watching over me and all of us. I am always here for each of you and will continue to pray for us all during this time of sorrow. The only thing that makes me smile is knowing he is with my dad and his grandfather Pete. Maybe they are hunting and fishing with Jesus. I'm sure dad will need the help. Loving you all, Shawn

Posted by: Shawn Felts at February 4, 2009 09:32 PM

Kenny and family,
We are so very sorry to hear about Cody. You have been close in our thoughts and prayers this week, and our heartfelt sympathy is with you in this sad time. Cody was a fine young man who will be dearly missed. We are praying for you, that you may feel God's nearness and His comforting presence, and may find peace and strength through these difficult days.

Kevin, Cindy & Michael Napier

Posted by: Cindy Napier at February 4, 2009 08:30 PM

Dearest Stallard Family, I am Sharon Garner;s Mom and I was at the Hair Station today and she was telling me about the loss of your son and grandson and I didn't know Cody but I just wanted you to know that I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you are feeling right now, no parent should have to bury their children, I feel your pain and I wish I could do something for you, so please know that from what I heard about Cody, I know he is in heaven with Jesus and all of yours and my friends who have passed on. And you will see him again when we all get to heaven, that is a beautiful hymn. My heart aches for you all. God Bless you, Juanita Rein, Virginia Beach, VA

Posted by: Juanita Rein at February 4, 2009 07:14 PM

Tracey and Family,

All of you have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard of the loss of your son, Cody. Words can't mend your heartache, but I hope that you will find strength in God's promises and comfort in the warm embrace of caring friends.

With sympathy and love,
Hattie and Phillip Boone

Posted by: Hattie Boone at February 4, 2009 06:41 PM

im very sorry about Cody, i will remember his being in Mrs.Seward,Mrs.Nace,and Mrs.Greene class and how he was the class clown, but i will miss him very much and i know that he went to a good place and god will be here for you and your family. god bless

Brittany Simmons

Posted by: Brittany Simmons at February 4, 2009 05:18 PM

Tracey, Kenneth, & Kelley,
I can not even begin to imagine the pain you are all feeling. Cody touched so many lives during his 16 years and he will continue to touch the lives of so many. You both raised a wonderful young man, with a good heart and a strong faith. As you look at the "sand" you will only see one set of footprints, because God is carrying you and will give you the strength you need. You and your family are in our prayers!
Love you Tracey! Remember, I'm only a phone call away.
Dianne

Posted by: Dianne Benton at February 4, 2009 04:44 PM

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Stallard and Kelley,
When my mom told me what had happened to your son, Cody, my heart stopped. I can't even begin to imagine the pain that you and your family are going through. I just started to pray that God would be with Cody's family and friends, and that He would comfort everyone. I didn't know Cody, but his death has really had a huge impact on me and opened my eyes to a lot of things. We are not promised tomorrow and that life is very precious. We will never understand why God takes people off this earth that means so much to us, be it young or old. I know Cody will be missed by everyone. His memories will never fade and neither will the love that everyone has for him. I would like you to know that your faily is in my thoughts and prayers.
April Benton, Dianne's daughter

Posted by: April Benton at February 4, 2009 04:13 PM

we are at a loss for words to comfort you in this time, we loved Cody and will he will be missed more as each day comes and goes.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you: bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Proverbs 3:3

Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up. James 4:10

Posted by: nancy & bubba at February 4, 2009 03:13 PM

We are very sorry for your loss of Cody. We have you in our prayers.We are here if you need us at anytime of day or night. May god bless and be with your family. We will miss Cody.

With deepest sympathy, David, Susan, Allison & James Smith

Posted by: David & Susan Smith at February 4, 2009 02:34 PM

I am stunned and deeply saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I first learned of this tragedy on Saturday night. I appreciated so much Cody spending time playing with my kids, and Charlie remembers Cody taking him to the "deep water" at the pool last summer. I will miss your sweet young man, and will continue to keep you constantly in my prayers.

Posted by: Debra Hearington at February 4, 2009 01:20 PM

Mr. and Mrs. Stallard,

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss of Cody. It has been a great pleasure getting to know Cody for the past seven years as he and Olivia attended school together. Cody was a very special person. We will forever remember his handsome face and mile long smile. The well-mannered, caring young man you raised is a testament to the great parents you both are. May your faith in a higher power keep you strong.

Posted by: Sandra and Olivia Walker at February 4, 2009 01:03 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I taught Cody in 8th grade at SMS. He was such a well mannered young man and was rarely seen without that charming smile. Cody was a pleasure to teach and work with everyday. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Jennifer Whitley at February 4, 2009 11:34 AM

Kenneth, Tracey, and Kelly and family,

We were so saddened to learn of Cody's passing. We were fortunate to know Cody and all of you through our son-in-law Todd. As parents and grandparents we cannot even imagine what you all are going through at this time. Cody was such a wonderful young man and made an impression on my family. We remember him with smiles, at our daughter Amy's wedding to his Uncle Todd and at summer pool parties where he took the time to play with all the little kids in the water. Our hearts are broken with grief for his wonderful family. Take comfort in knowing you all will be with Cody again in Heaven. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Katherine & Bill Hearington

Posted by: Katherine & Bill Hearington at February 4, 2009 11:01 AM

There are no words that can express our sorrow. We wish to honor Cody's love of family and friends. He embraced life and fully lived in the moment. He had strong principles and was strong in his faith. We know this by how he lived his life-- always helping others. We KNOW he is with our Father and watching over you. Our love to you all, Jay and Chris

Posted by: Chris Epperson at February 4, 2009 10:31 AM

Dear Tracey & Family,

All of you have been in our thoughts & our prayers. I'm so glad we had the chance to meet Cody. He was always courteous and very respectful to me playing softball. I will never forget Cody, he was a "Special Boy". You both raised him with Love, Kindness & Respect. God shines in your life and it shows. "Our Heavenly Father" is embracing Cody, what a comfort.

Posted by: David & Diane Barlow at February 4, 2009 09:14 AM

Cody will live in the hearts of everyone who knew and loved him. Memories will keep him close forever. May the love of God give you peace; may the love of friends give you comfort; may the love of your dear one remain in your hearts and give you strength through the difficult days ahead.

Posted by: Sharon & Frank Patterson at February 4, 2009 08:06 AM

Kenneth, Tracey, Kelly and all of Cody's loving family

You're all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time in your life. The sudden death of your precious son Cody is an unimaginable loss. Your faith can bring peace through the heartache and turmoil you're facing. God bless each and everyone of you.

Faith, Family, and Friends

Always remember to extend a caring hand
To the grieving loved ones around our land
Take time to cry, laugh, or reminisce with them
And realize they will forever need a true friend

Angels' time on earth, whether short or long
Yesterday's treasured memories to us belong
After they have gone to their heavenly homes
Our hearts beat as one, until our time comes

God will continuously provide for you
Spiritual, physical, and emotional too
Strength from faith, family, and friends
Provides peace and comfort until the end

The wonderful gifts the good Lord gives
Sharing the lives our beloved angels lived
Counting our precious blessings is easy to do
When prayers to God, end with "Thank You"

Written by Diane Craddock

Posted by: Diane Craddock at February 4, 2009 07:04 AM

Words cannot express how sad I felt when I heard of Cody's passing. Cody was a loving, caring young man. He will always hold a special spot in my heart. I will keep your family in my prayers. Hold tight to your faith and know that God is with you during these tough times.

Posted by: Diane A. Seward at February 3, 2009 10:26 PM

Kenneth,Tracey,and Kelly,
We are so sorry for your loss.We know there is nothing we can say or do to ease the pain you are all going through.Know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Paul and Gayle Brandley at February 3, 2009 09:46 PM

We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. He was a class mate and friend to our son Vance. He will be missed. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May god help you get past this tough time that you all are going threw.

With deepest sympathy
The Stephenson's

Posted by: The Stephenson's at February 3, 2009 09:20 PM

Hey Guys,

I am burdened with grief to hear of your loss. I just wanted to let you guys know that I am thinking about you, and have you in my prayers. There isn't much I can do to help out at the moment but i can give you these words of encouragement.

Keep your heads up and your spirits high. Cody has gone on, but not forever. There will be a time when you will be reunited with Cody and what a glorious occasion that will be.

God Bless and I love you all.

Posted by: Emmette Epperson at February 3, 2009 06:02 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. My heart is deeply saddened, you will be in my heart and prayers. I work with Todd at BI and met Cody at the Richmond race last year and I have 2 teenage boys of my own who are both Cody's age. Cody talked to me as if he had known me for years, he will be trully missed. God Bless

Posted by: Kirk brown at February 3, 2009 04:54 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Our son Jason was a friend of Cody's at SHS. He will be sorely missed.

Wanda & Joe Pascucci

Posted by: The Pascucci Family at February 3, 2009 04:51 PM

There is not much you can say after losing a loved one. But we cant even imagaine losing a child. We want you to know that you have our deepest sympathies. Your family is in our hearts and our prayers

Posted by: Corbett Family at February 3, 2009 03:40 PM

Tracey and family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Tragedies like this are difficult to understand. May your faith sustain you and your memories bring you peace.

Wendi Harrell Simmons, Emporia

Posted by: Wendi Harrell Simmons at February 3, 2009 03:22 PM

Kenneth, Tracey, and Kelly,
Words cannot express how sorry we are about this tragedy. Just know that we are both praying that the Lord will give you strength to get through this. I know we never understand why God takes away the people we love, but just know He promises to never give us anything our faith cannot handle.

Posted by: Casey & Kirstyn West at February 3, 2009 03:14 PM

I am heartbroken for your family. I pray that the Lord will give you peace and strength to get through this tragic situation. I also pray that many will come to know Him because of Cody's life. We will be praying for you all.

Posted by: Rachel Howell Jones at February 3, 2009 01:59 PM

Lorene, Judy, Tracey and Kenneth; My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you with the peace of a new 'relationship' with Cody, the 'relationship' that you carry in your heart. Thelma Atkins and Rose Atkins Stalnaker

Posted by: Rose Atkins Stalnaker at February 3, 2009 12:56 PM

To the Stallard Family,

Our sincere sympathy over the tragic loss of your son Cody. It is beyond comprehension and we wish you God's peace as the days pass. May beautiful memories of your son and his love for all of you help to soothe you and bring you through these very sad days.

Sincerely, Ruth Winiarski, Dawn's aunt

Posted by: Tony and Ruth Winiarski at February 3, 2009 12:25 PM

Kenneth, Tracey, Kelly and family,
Few words can express what the heart feels at a time such as this but we try anyway. Sorrow, unbearable pain, grief, confusion and even anger begin to describe our initial feelings, then with time and God's love, these feelings begin to give way to peace, joy and one day, understanding. My prayer is that through God's strength and the love of all of us that the initial feelings be brief and before long you have the peace and understanding that you so deserve.
Kenneth and Tracey, you are wonderful Godly parents and were blessed to have had Cody for a son. We will truly miss him in our everyday lives.
We love you...Danny, Becky, Janet & Daniel

Posted by: Becky Felts at February 3, 2009 10:16 AM

Kenny, Tracy, and Kelly

We were so shocked to hear the drastic news of Cody passing. It is so unexpected and devastating. I know you fight day end and day out to keep your kids healthy and making it a little longer but for this to happen to such a healthy, strong, and young great boy is hard news to take. You all are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here if any of you need anything. " The product of living from the heart is to have genuine respect for other human beings and for oneself" and Coty from what we have seen and hear did this perfectly. He will be deeply missed and remembered for being a great person.

Donna, Charles, Dustin, and Cheyanne Williams

Posted by: Cody Stallard at February 3, 2009 09:15 AM

Stallard Family,
I remember growing up with Cody when I was in elementary school. I remember hanging out with him and some of the other boys at church when I was young too. Looking back, I cherish those memories and knowing Cody. I am so sorry that his life was cut short, but I can say that he is greatly missed at Southampton. He made an impact on a lot of lives here and i just want you guys to know how much he still means to all of us. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you guys. Cody is with God now, and that gives me peace of mind knowing that he is enjoying a life with no pain or sorrow. Thank you for raising such an amazing kid that has touched many.

Posted by: Chelsea Gephart at February 3, 2009 09:00 AM

To the Stallard Family: There are no words for your grief and loss other than Cody is in Gods hands now and is watching over you. May your faith in God give you the strengh to get through these trying times. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Donna Gwaltney & Robert Bradshaw at February 3, 2009 08:51 AM

So sorry to hear of Cody's passing. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. The Grahams (Chuck, Susan, Paul, Andy, Matthew and Bryan)

Posted by: The Graham Family at February 3, 2009 07:50 AM

To the Stallard Family
I remember Cody as being a student at Nottoway Elementary when I was employed there and my daughter Sher-nae shared classes with Cody,I don't know what u are feeling,but my heart is sadden by this lost,may God grant you and your family strength,remember God has gain another angel,and you will see Cody again.

Posted by: cassini flint &Sher-nae Earls at February 3, 2009 07:48 AM

Kenny, Tracy and Kelly,
I can not even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling right now. We admire all of you so much. Your faith is so strong! You are an amazing family. We feel so blessed to have known Cody. He was such a good boy and always willing to help. I know he enjoyed being the soundman at church and we were so lucky to have him as our soundman at our wedding. I hope your hearts can heal over time and you can smile as you remember the funny things about Cody. He could definitely make you laugh. We love you all!

Posted by: Traci and Bubba Ratliff at February 3, 2009 07:20 AM

Kenny, Traci, and Kelly,

We are so saddened to hear about Cody. He had a love of life and God that we should all be so proud of. His giving heart and the love of his wonderful family and friends is one which you can take such pride in. We will always be here if you need anything. We can remember Cody as a small little fellow who Rick would joke with about the toys in the attic and the giggles Kenny would say in return and what a fine remarkable young man he had become with your love and guidance. Please call on us if you need anything. Our prayers will be with you now and in the times to come and that God will see you all through this troubling time. Lean on him.
Rick, MaryAnn, and Cole

Posted by: The Ruppe family at February 3, 2009 07:13 AM

Dear Tracey and family,
Todd passed on to me the sad news of Cody's death. My heart aches for you and I cannot imagine the anguish your are feeling. I did not know Cody, but read your statements about him. Tracey, he sounds so much like you and I am not surprised. What a son Cody was and what a role model to his friends and classmates he is. Please let God take this burden for you and remember:
There is a sacredness in tears.
They are not the mark of weakness, but of power.
They speak more eloquently than 10,000 tongues.
They are the messengers of overwhelming grief,
of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.

- Washington Irving

Your tears are the sign of your immeasurable, unspeakable and powerful love of your son.
I am praying for God to bring you strength to get through this challenge.
Terry Tuck

Posted by: Terry Tuck at February 2, 2009 11:24 PM

I cannot tell you how badly I feel for all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please take comfort in knowing that Cody is now with God. God bless all of you. Fran Lawrence

Posted by: Fran Lawrence at February 2, 2009 09:37 PM

Dear Tracey and Kenneth,
I was so sorry to hear of Cody's passing. I taught him in the 3rd grade and just thought that he was the sweetest little boy. It had been a while since I last saw of him. God had truly blessed him with such a wonderful life and with such loving parents. Please know that your family are in my constant thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Posted by: Dawn Crowder Wise at February 2, 2009 09:36 PM

Tracey and family, It saddeneds me deeply to hear of your sudden loss of Cody. No words can lessen the pain or sorrow. Just know that you are surrounded by family and friends that are here for you all. You, Kenneth, Kelly and family are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Heather Widener, & Family at February 2, 2009 09:14 PM

Cody was a very nice boy. Always polite, nice, and well mannered at Bent Barrel Hunt Club. Everyone always heard from Cody "Where are we hunting at"? Cody and I would ride around while we were hunting. He made me laugh a ton. I remember him as a boy, ready to do anything for anyone. I will miss him forever and always.
Kenneth, Tracey, and family, let God give you the power to get through these hard times. Just remember Cody is in your hearts and is watching you, and remember you all will all see him again. God will give you the strength to get through the tragic times. If there is anything we can do please feel free to let us know. We will see Cody Again!
Daniel, Allen, Amy,& Dana Crocker (Windsor, VA)

Posted by: Daniel, Allen, Amy, &Dana Crocker at February 2, 2009 08:49 PM

Stallard Family,

We are sadden by the loss of Cody. We have been thinking about you all & praying ever since we heard. We pray that God holds you close & gives you comfort knowing you will see Cody again one day. Please know that we are here for anything you might need. Keeping you close to our hearts.

Posted by: Leah, Doug, & Reece Thompson at February 2, 2009 07:40 PM

Kenny, Tracey and Kelley,
We cannot imagine your lose of Cody or the pain your are feeling right now. And while words cannot comfort you, remember that the Lord is your rock and salvation in these times of troubles. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Jim and Cathy Davison at February 2, 2009 07:27 PM

Kenneth & Tracey
I know what it is to lose one you hold dear. I am sure I knew Cody by sight. The Lord blessed you with a son that was a blessing to you and the Millfield family. I know that you will see him again in Heaven and praise God for the time you had with Cody. God bless you all at this most difficult time.

Posted by: Roy Glave at February 2, 2009 07:16 PM

Dear Stallard Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We only knew Cody through the race community and the weekends spent at the track,but you only had to know Cody a little while to know that all the kind words said of him here are true. There are no words that can be expressed to offer you much comfort, but take comfort in knowing that he is in the arms of his heavenly father.

Posted by: The Gross Family at February 2, 2009 06:18 PM

Tracey and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. May God strengthen you and may He hold you close now and in the days, months, and years to come.

Posted by: Doris Harrison at February 2, 2009 05:53 PM

Mr. and Mrs. Stallard and Kelly,

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and keep you near in this time of need. I can remember Cody while he was at the middle school, so sweet and cheerful. He was always willing to help his classmates and teachers. Kelly, your school family loves you and we are here for you. I am deeply sorry for your loss

Posted by: Tamee Railey at February 2, 2009 05:48 PM

I was so shocked when I heard Cody had passed . I will miss him at the lake this summer. Now we have another guardian Angel to watch over us.
I love you guys very much. Love Savanah Leigh.

Posted by: Savanah Leigh Powers at February 2, 2009 05:46 PM

To the Stallard family
We want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please remember all of the memories, for no one can take them away. Our body is just a shell God gives us on loan. He leaves us memories, if only for a little while. If ever there is anything that we can do, please know we are here. Kelly know that we love you and are here for you.

Posted by: The Keller Family at February 2, 2009 05:20 PM

Dear Tracey, Melvin, Kathy, Lorene and Family.
I am deeply sadden about the tragic accident. It is so hard to understand why these things happen. Out lives can change in just a second. But God needed an angel with him so now Cody is watching over all of you. You have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since Betty called me. If there is anything I can do please let me know.

Posted by: Lynn Harrell Ramsey at February 2, 2009 04:43 PM

My heart aches for you all. I am so sorry to hear about Cody. You are all in our prayers. Please know God took back a "wonderful angel" to do His work back up in Heaven. We are here in any way you may need us. Please lean on those who care when you need. Now, tomorrow or next month.

Posted by: Cindy Tumilty and family at February 2, 2009 04:39 PM

Tracey and family,
I was so sad to hear about your son. I didn't know him, but if he is anything like his mother, he had to be so full of life. I pray that God will give you and your family peace and comfort during this time of sorrow. Just remember what is promised to those who have accepted Christ as their Savior...you will see Cody again! My prayers are with you all...Mary

Posted by: Mary Williams at February 2, 2009 03:25 PM

Tracey & family, You have been on our minds and in our prayers since the moment we heard. We are so very, very, sorry. May the peace of God hold your family close as you face what must seem like an impossible time. We love you. -Mason Family

Posted by: Crystal Mason at February 2, 2009 02:42 PM

Tracey & Kenneth

My heart breaks for you both. I have been thinking about you and praying for you since I heard about Cody. Although I never got the chance to meet him, it's obvious what a fine young man he was and how well liked he was in the community. I know he was raised in a loving family and he was so lucky to have you as parents. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Heather

Posted by: Heather Rock Simmons at February 2, 2009 12:27 PM

Ken, Tracey, and Kelly,

I have thought about you nonstop since hearing about Cody. I don't know how you are making sense of any of it. Like so many people, I wish that there were something I could say or do. I don't know what that might be. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Cody was lucky, lucky, lucky to have you as his family. Deepest sympathy, Amy

Posted by: Amy McCracken at February 2, 2009 11:45 AM

Our deepest sympathy is extended to all of you during your time of sorrow. We are so sorry to hear of Cody's passing and we are keeping you close in thought and prayer.

Posted by: Denise & Chelsea Gephart at February 2, 2009 10:47 AM

I pray the Lord will comfort you all (Kenny, Tracey, Kelly Anne, Charles, Judy, Lorene, and others). While this time in your life has grown very bitter I pray your thoughts of eternal rest will grow much sweeter. Hold tight to the hope in which we share. Christ will return and we shall live again with Him! (1 Thess 4:13-18) The NKJ version uses the words, "those who sleep in Jesus." If I can comfort you with any words, those would do it best. May you all find peace and rest in knowing the spirit lives on. God Bless!

Posted by: Jeremy Gephart at February 2, 2009 10:36 AM

We were so sorry to hear about Cody. Words seem so empty. They can neither eleviate your pain nor adequately express how we feel about this tradegy. It's alway hard to understand why things happen the way they do and always easy to ask 'why?', especially with such a great loss. Keep the wonderful memories, the laughs and triumphs, close to your heart and foremost in your mind. We will be praying that God will sustain and comfort you as only he can. Love to you all.

Posted by: David & Sherri Joyner at February 2, 2009 10:22 AM

We feel blessed to have known Cody. As we talked about Cody last night, had to smile thinking of some of the silly things he had said in the past. I hope during this time you you can remember so much of the good things about Cody and how he touched so many lives. Cody had a strong presence, that will never change. Our prayers are with you.

Posted by: Brian, Sandy, Hunter and Amber Murphy at February 2, 2009 09:58 AM

Kenneth, Tracey and Kelly Ann,
There are no words that will take away the pain for the passing of such a fine young man. We mourn with you, we hurt with you and we pray for you. God bless you all! We love you guys.

Posted by: Jeff Stephanie & Brynna Burchett at February 2, 2009 09:16 AM

Tracey & Family: I am so very sorry to hear about Cody...my heart breaks for each of you...Know that God is with you and he will carry you through this most difficult time...I will remember him with sweet memories...

Posted by: Ginny Turner at February 2, 2009 06:38 AM

Kenny, Tracy, and Kelly we are truly saddened by Cody's passing and pray for peace for you all during this difficult time in your lives. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Eric and Shannon Spain at February 1, 2009 10:55 PM

Kenny, Tracey, and Kelly I am very sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing anyone can say at this great time of sorrow. We will pray for you all and we know Cody is with GOD but will forever be missed here on earth. My GOD grant you peace and be with each of you as you struggle through your time of need and grieving.

Posted by: Cliff Carr at February 1, 2009 10:06 PM

We are deeply saddened the loss of Cody. We are comforted knowing he is now with the Lord. We offer our sincere condolences and will keep your family in our prayer. May God bless you!

Posted by: James & Margot Broglin at February 1, 2009 07:51 PM

Kenneth & Tracey,
Greg & I want you to know that each of you are in our thoughts & prayers. I wish there was something I could say to take the pain away for a brief moment. Hold on to each other & God during this difficult time.

Posted by: Sandra Carr Vick at February 1, 2009 07:07 PM

We are sorry to hear of codys death, my brother David was quite upset. He was a great friend with Cody. Your family is in our prayers. We miss you Cody.

Posted by: David jr. & allison smith at February 1, 2009 06:49 PM

I'm so sorry to hear of Cody's passing. My heart goes out to all of you. I can't imagine the loss you must be feeling. It never makes sense when God takes angels this young.

Posted by: Jenny Butler Sanderson at February 1, 2009 02:16 PM