J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Homes

Lanik, Nancy Moore

Monday, July 07, 2008

Nancy Moore Lanik, age 72, a native of Hopewell, Virginia, died Saturday July 5, 2008 at Southside Regional Medical Center, following a brief illness. She was preceded in death by her father, Harry F. Moore and her mother and stepfather, Thelma Conway McCutchan and John N. McCutchan, two sons, Michael J. and Faison Conway Savage and her step daughter, Laura Waage. She is survived by her devoted husband, Thomas C. Lanik, her son, James N. Savage of Richmond, her stepdaughter, Lyn L. Patterson( Jeff) of Houston, Texas, grandchildren, Nelson Savage and Lauren Savage of Hopewell, Alexandra and Caroline Patterson, Houston, Texas, daughter in law, Valerie B. Savage of Hopewell, five sisters, Lillian M. Holden(Dr.B.Glenn) of Petersburg, Jane M. Eliades, of Chesterfield, Martha M. Faison(James), Rachel M. Childs,(Stanley)and Elizabeth M. Amick, all of Prince George and one brother, John N. McCutchan(Paula) of Hopewell, 16 nieces and nephews, 28 great nieces and nephews, one great great nephew, brother in law Robert H. Lanik of Alamogordo, New Mexico, three God children, Patrick Anderson of Hopewell, Mary C. Forbes, and Nicholas McDowall of Prince George. Born and reared in Hopewell, she graduated from Hopewell High School, moved to Richmond and attended Richmond Professional Institute (VCU) and in later years attended Richard Bland College. She was employed by Life of Virginia Insurance Company and lived in a boarding house owned by “Pop” and Grace Baldwin. A book written by Mrs. Baldwin entitled “Come Live with Me” includes a humorous story about Nancy and her encouragement to one of the girls living there. After returning to Hopewell, she opened Carter House Antiques and became a knowledgeable and much respected antique dealer in the Metropolitan area. On the light side she was a favorite “Auntie” Nancy to her many nieces and nephews and will always be remembered for having taught them how to lay eggs. Her love of travel took her many times to Europe with her family members and of late many, many sister trips stateside in the United States and Hawaii. Her adorable one of a kind Christmas stockings are cherished by those who received them and they adorn many homes at Christmas time. A butterfly in spirit, it was only fitting that she collected anything and everything relating to butterflies. In 1977, she and Tom moved to San Antonio, Texas and from there she followed Tom to Iran where he was employed with the Department of Defense. Fortunately, they were safely evacuated when the Shah was dethroned. They returned to San Antonio, where she was employed as manager of Frost Brothers Department Store until Tom’s employment relocated them to Sacramento, California. When Tom retired in 1992, they returned to her beloved home place in City Point where she remained until her death. In Hopewell, she volunteered her services to the Sexual Assault Outreach Program and was a volunteer as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA). Her love of the Rivah House and growing oysters made for many relaxed end enjoyable weekends at their home in Piankitank Shores. She was a member of the Tidewater Oyster Growers Association (TOGA), the Women’s Club of Hopewell, and a member of St. John’s Episcopal Church and was a loyal supporter of other civic and church groups of which she gave generously in contributions and in volunteering her time and efforts. In 2007, she was diagnosed with cancer and had just celebrated her “one year cancer free” anniversary in June. She was a friend to everyone who knew her and was loved by all. A memorial service will be held in the Chapel of J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home & Cremation Service Wednesday July 9 at 7:00 PM with visitation to follow the service. In lieu of flowers the family request that memorial; contributions be made to CASA, St. Johns Episcopal Church or a charity of your choice. Condolences may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com.

Hello Tom,
I remember the happiness that Nancy brought into your life. Your eyes always lit up when you were talking about her. She truly made a magnificent difference in you. So glad that you were able to share so many years together. Margaret (Marge) Robbins

Posted by: Margaret E Robbins at August 21, 2008 04:51 PM

Tom and Jimmy and Family,
My deepest heartfelt sorrow goes out to all of you. When I think of Nancy I have great memories of being one of the kids next door. Nancy always broke up the fights between us kids by saying she would put red lipstick on us girls and make us kiss the boys. That always made us laugh and go ECK.But most of all I remember her love of life and the way she loved life--most of us would love to have been half the Lady she was.
Godspeed Nancy
Karen

Posted by: Karen Clements at July 12, 2008 04:30 PM

Dearest Tom, Jimmy, and all of Nancy's family,
We are thinking of you now as you are at the Memorial Service. Although we are not there in person, our thoughts are with you. What a most wonderful lady Nancy was. She touched the soul of everyone she met. We hope and pray that you will find comfort in the precious memories that you have. We will keep you in our prayers as you go through the the next months. Nancy will be missed by all of us, her friends, but we know that you will miss that "love of life" that she had. We send our heartfelt sympathy and LOVE, Sherry and Tom Glisson Windermere, Fl

Posted by: Tom and Sherry Glisson at July 9, 2008 07:41 PM

Dear Tom,
I was shocked to hear about the passing of Nancy. She will truely be missed, but only for a short while. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Much Love
Millie and Family

Posted by: Millie Yow Cassell at July 9, 2008 08:20 AM

Dear Tom,
I send you heartfelt condolences at the loss of your most precious Nancy. Nancy's life is one to be celebrated. I have fond and pleasurable memories of Nancy; especially when I think of how she loved to laugh and made others laugh. It was always a delight to be in her presence. I will always treasure memories of her and I am thankful that I had the honor to know her. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Be blessed, Ron Oakley

Posted by: Ron Oakley at July 9, 2008 05:06 AM

Dear Tom and family,
We were so sad to hear of Nancy's passing. She was always a ray of happiness. We'll never see another butterfly without thinking about her. Our hearts go out to you at this time.
Love, Dick and Carolyn Cook

Posted by: Dick and Carolyn Cook at July 8, 2008 11:09 PM

Tom,
Our prayers and heartfelt sympathy are with you at this time. Our memories are pleasant of our experiences with you all in Iran. We'll always remember the wonderful bus trip to Isfahan as well as other trips and gatherings with you all and other friends there in Iran.
Terry & Barbara Wicker

Posted by: TERRY & BARBARA WICKER at July 8, 2008 08:37 AM

Dear Tom and Family:
I am very sorry for the loss of Nancy. As one of the "kids next door" I too have many very fond memories of her. I will always remember her loving smile, her butterfly collections and her love of life. I had the pleasure and opportunity of spending many holidays and vacations with her and "the sisters". My love and prayers are with you all.

Julie

Posted by: Julie Clements Martin at July 7, 2008 10:00 PM

It's hard to express the sadness I feel at hearing of Nancy's passing. As a High School classmate I shall always rememeber her for her beautiful smile and infectous personality. There was never a dull moment when Nancy was about. My sincere sympathy to her entire family.

Bobby Edwards

Posted by: Robert Edwards at July 7, 2008 08:49 PM

Dear Tom and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Nancy will be greatly missed. Especially her laughter and her smile. Vance has many fond memories from when he was a kid growing up with Conway and Jimmy. We will treasure the good times we had with you and Nancy at Christmas and New Years Eve. It was always such a joy seeing you and Nancy.

Love, Lisa and Vance

Posted by: Vance & Lisa Boss at July 7, 2008 07:14 PM

Tom, we are very sorry for your loss! We hope the love of your family and many friends will help you get through this time. We are praying for you. Come to Texas soon! We like it when you visit!

Love, Janet and John

Posted by: Janet and John Altadonna at July 7, 2008 03:31 PM

WE WILL ALWAYS TREASURE OUR CASINO TRIPS TOGETHER. IT WAS ALWAYS A JOY TO SEE YOUR SMILING FACE. WE WILL MISS YOU DEARLY.

LOVE,
TRACI, MARY, JASMINE, AND JOHNNY

Posted by: CASINOS UNLIMITED at July 7, 2008 03:19 PM