J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Homes

Cowling, Courtney

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Waverly, Virginia
Courtney Frank Cowling, 22, of Waverly, passed away Wednesday, January 9, 2008. Born January 18, 1985 in Richmond he was the son of Gurney Branch Cowling, Jr. and Polly Remorenko Cowling. Besides his parents, he is survived by three brothers, twin brother Carey Randal Cowling of Waverly, Shawn C. Cowling of Virginia Beach, and G. Branch Cowling, III, and his wife, L. Flynn Cowling, of Prince George; a nephew, Davis C. Cowling; maternal grandmother, Dorothy O. Remorenko of Gordonsville; paternal grandparents, G. B. Cowling, Sr. and Evelyn Cowling of Waverly; aunts, uncles, and extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his grandfather, F. M. Remorenko, Jr.
He graduated from Tidewater Academy in 2003 and earned his B.A. in Economics as a 2007 graduate of Hampden-Sydney College. He was employed by Old Dominion Construction, Inc. of Smithfield.
Courtney had a hobby of tinkering with “big toys,” and he was a member of the Waverly Volunteer Fire Department.
Funeral services will be held on Saturday, January 12, 2008 at 2:00 p.m. in Waverly United Methodist Church, Waverly, with the Rev. Connie Gibbs officiating. Interment will follow in the Waverly Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the church for the hour prior to the funeral on Saturday.
Memorial donations may be made to Waverly Vol. Fire Department, P.O. Box 318, Waverly, VA 23890; Tidewater Academy Memorial Fund, P.O. Box 1000, Wakefield, VA 23888; or the Waverly United Methodist Church, P.O. Box 12, Waverly, VA 23890.
The Purviance Chapel of J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home, Wakefield, is handling arrangements. Condolences may be posted and video memorial may be viewed on our website at www.jtmorriss.com.

Dear Polly , Gurney and other family members,
May G-d send angels to LIFT you to your feet thru expressions of HUGS, smiles and other forms of comfort till YOU CAN FLY ONCE AGAIN.
May angels visit you unaware in the least expected moments as you grieve and mourn your loss each day of one so dear.
Shalom in HIM,
THE PRINCE OF PEACE
Faye and Al Mattox

Posted by: Faye Mattox at January 31, 2008 02:34 AM

Gurney and Polly,

I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

With deepest sympathy,
Johnny Carson
Marietta, GA

Posted by: Johnny Carson at January 22, 2008 10:45 AM

You will continually be blessed by Courtney's memory. You are the family that know and love him in a way that words were never written to understand. His spirit will be a constant with you forever and he will bring you peace in times when you need him the most. We are not meant to understand the unbroken bond of our lost loved ones, but that bond takes on a new dimention of faith that is very easy to believe when experienced. You won't have to look for him, you will just know he is there. God bless and keep you in His care. You are in my constant thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Theresa Tune at January 15, 2008 08:44 PM

Mr. & Mrs. Cowling, Carey, Shawn, and Branch:
I sincerely hope that you have been surrounded by love, comfort, and support during this tragedy. One day, a very long time from now, you will find an inner peace with God and begin to trust that He has Courtney with him in his care. Times such as these, a long with the tragedies of the past few years in our community, really bring life to a whole new perspective. Treasure each moment, happy or sad, good or bad, because you have that moment. Say things that you would otherwise have held back. Do things that you would have never done. Take advantage of each second God gives you here on earth until you can be with Courtney again in eternity. I understand the hurt, confusion, pain, and questioning. But I am so grateful to have known Courtney here on earth and there are no doubts in my mind that you raised such a wonderful, caring, and respectful son and that he is with God. Bless your family and spend as much time together as possible. Keep your friends close as well. In love,

Meredith R. Faison
TA '02

Posted by: Meredith R. Faison at January 15, 2008 02:38 PM

Cowling Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Courtney. I hope you all realize the positive impact he had on everyone who knew him. Please know how blessed I feel to have watched him grow up through the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

Brandon Thornton and Family

Posted by: Brandon Thornton at January 14, 2008 05:17 PM

Dear Little Gurney and Family: The news of Courtney's passing saddened all our hearts. All your distant relatives haven't kept in touch over the years, but we all want you to know we're thinking of you and will keep all of you in our prayers. We are your mother, Evelyn's, first cousins. Love, Gloria, Claudia, Danny and Families

Posted by: Gloria Sowder Simmons at January 14, 2008 04:55 PM

Gurney, Polly, and family:
Thinking of you at this time. Only those who have known such a tragedy can truly understand your sorrow. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and your family.

Tami (LeSueur), Melvin and Brandon Bass

Posted by: Tami and Melvin Bass at January 14, 2008 03:06 PM

Polly, Gurney and family: As a friend and fellow Waverly High School student, I remember the days of laughter, joy and innocence of what the future may hold. If we had a way of foreseeing that future the fear would have crippled us. I remember the power and grace in watching Polly and Gurney on the basketball court and all of your children beamed with that vitality of life, love of the sport, and love of life that you passed along to them. My heart is heavy at the loss you are suffering and amazed at the courage you all have displayed. You have a new relationship with Courtney now. He is not here physically, but lives within your heart, and through you his being will never fade. God bless you!

Posted by: Rose thompson at January 14, 2008 10:03 AM

Gurney and family
All of you are in my prayers and have my deepest sympathy. Your friendship and your family have meant so much to me over the years. May God be with you.
Joe Trice

Posted by: Joe Trice at January 14, 2008 09:54 AM

Branch: I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your bother... Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Courtney (Lee) Applewhite, SA Class of '93

Posted by: Courtney Applewhite at January 13, 2008 09:30 PM

My family and I are so saddened by your loss. We share in your sorrow. You are remembered deeply in our prayers. Take care and put your faith and trust in the Lord to carry you through these times of loss.
Roger & Ruby Boger

Posted by: Roger G. Boger at January 13, 2008 06:52 PM

Dear Cowling Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Cowling family. Our memories of Courtney will always be of a big smile and a twinking in his eyes.
The three boys building that truck in our driveway, busy as beavers, making their creation, will forever be with us.
My God now hold you in His arms as he is surely holding Courtney. May peace and the certianity of God love and grace be with your family.

Larry, Susan & Kyle Ratliffe

Posted by: Larry & Susan Ratliffe at January 13, 2008 03:18 PM

Dear Cowling Family,
It is so hard to understand why people are taken from us but the Lord leaves us a gift of beautiful memories in exchange for our sorrow. Take comfort in knowing that you all were a special part of such a wonderful young man. Surround yourself with family and good friends for they will always be there for you. I hope that it lightens your burden to know that in time the edges of your heart with soften once again. Please know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers during this time. May the promises of God's word shed light for you in the days to come.

Posted by: Ashley Jarratt Protzman at January 13, 2008 02:55 PM

Dear Gurney, Polly and Cary,

Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Know that Jesus now holds Courtney in his arms and he is safe for everymore.
Courtney was so very dear to our family and especially to Kyle. Our hearts break for your entire family.

My Gods love flow over you and hold you fast at this time.

Larry, Susan, and Kyle Ratliffe

Posted by: Larry And Suan Ratliffe at January 13, 2008 02:48 PM

Carey,
I am so very sad for you and your family. What a loss for all of you, as well as other family members and friends.

I have some very fond memories of "The Cowling Twins" and will forever remember Courtney with a smile.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Take care,

Nurse Graham

Posted by: Beth "Nurse" Graham at January 13, 2008 01:15 PM

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Cowling and Family,

We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Mr. & Mrs. James Scott Deadmon at January 13, 2008 11:20 AM

Dear Gurney, Polly, and Family:

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of great loss. Words can only offer some comfort at a time of great loss. Only our heavenly father and time will dull the pain you feel right now. May the Lord be with you and keep you.

Mike and Helen Eggleston

Posted by: Mike and Helen Eggleston at January 13, 2008 09:07 AM

Gurney,

I share the immense pain of your loss and wish for you and your family peace and comfort through love and prayer........

Massie Simpkins HMA'63

Posted by: Massie Simpkins at January 13, 2008 07:47 AM

Gurney, it is with a great deal of sadness that I write this note. I can not imagine the pain that is yours. Please accept my deepest condolences. I look forward to seeing you in April at Homecoming as usual.

Jack Pattisall,HMA '64

Posted by: Jack Pattisall at January 12, 2008 09:21 PM

Dear Polly, Gurney, Branch, Shawn, and Carey,

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in the many beautiful memories you as well all your friends and family have of Courtney.

with deepest sympathy,
Frances Joyner Warnick

Posted by: Frances Joyner Warnick at January 12, 2008 09:15 PM

Dear Cowling Family,
May God be with you in your time of loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Krystle Kitchen-TA'04
"Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die."-Mary E Faye

Posted by: Krystle Kitchen- TA '04 at January 12, 2008 08:34 PM

Dear Polly, Gurney, and family,

We are thinking of you during this difficult time.
Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Rebecca and Michael Pope at January 12, 2008 08:09 PM

Dear Gurney, Polly, Carey, and remainder of family,

Wasn't long ago we were able to speak with Courtney at the store. He was so ambicious, so friendly, and so proud to be your son. He may be gone, but his spirit will always be with you and the family. He soars with the angels and will always be close by.

Our thoughts and our prayers are with you on your daily endeavors. One day at a time is all that will heal your loss. Courtney will never be forgotten, and his love for you will always stay in your hearts.

God bless you on your days to come.

Brenda Layne
Chuck Kolb

Posted by: Brenda Layne and Chuck Kolb at January 12, 2008 03:01 PM

I am sorry for your loss and can't even imagine how you must be feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers in your time of need. God Bless you all at this time in your life. Stay strong.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Diane Johnson Saffell

Posted by: Diane (Johnson) Saffell at January 12, 2008 02:26 PM

Polly, Gurney, Branch, Shawn, Cary...
My heart is so very heavy for each of you. Please know that we can only go through "IT" by reaching out and holding the hand of GOD. I know that James and Frank met him...Jamie proclaming... man,let me show you the courts in Heaven. My prayers are sent daily for you.
Betty Freudig

Posted by: Betty Freudig at January 12, 2008 01:14 PM

I know words are not enough at a time like this, but please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. My you find peace in God's grace.

Bill, Rendy (Owen), Rusty and Will Powers (HSC '05)
Franklin, VA

Posted by: Rendy Powers at January 12, 2008 12:59 PM

My son, Beau, was off to HSC and I opened the the freshman facebook to scan the class of 2007. The first two faces that jumped off the page were that of Carey and Courtney....handsome, vibrant and smiling. I was taken aback at the sight and thought of the two of them and the fun they would have in the next four years. To my surprise, they were Beau's next door neighbors at White House. My family met Courtney on the very first day and knew our son would be in good company, and indeed he was. Courtney was such a wonderful young man and a friend to remember always. Words cannot express the grief we feel in your loss and the loss in your community of such a dear and unselfish soul. I will always think of him and the joy and laughter that he brought to so many people. Carey, you and mom and dad are in our prayers daily...God Bless.

Posted by: Khaki Berry at January 12, 2008 12:53 PM

Carey, please know that Bobby and I are thinking of you and your family at this time of unimaginable loss. We treasure the times we shared with you and Courtney at the River.

Sharon and Bobby Watson
Wicomico Church Va

Posted by: Sharon Watson at January 12, 2008 10:06 AM

Polly, Gurney and family
We were shocked and saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Courtney. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Courtney was a wonderful young man and his passing will be a tremendous loss.
You have our deepest sympathy.

Love,
Diane, Steve, Wendy, Michael and Matthew Jenkins

Posted by: Diane Jenkins at January 12, 2008 09:54 AM

Polly,
Words seem so inadequate at a time like this. I want you to know that you, Gurney, Branch, Shawn and especially Carey are in my daily prayers. Courtney has taken a journey that we all must take in time. Albeit, his came much to early. He lived a GOOD life Polly - evidenced by reading through these condolences and seeing the number of lives in touched in such a short time. Spotsylvania Schools have Spring break 24-28 March. Maybe we can get together with Barbara then - sooner if you need to.

Love from your Smithdeale-Massey roommate and lifelong friend - Karen

Posted by: Karen Robinson Winkler at January 12, 2008 09:41 AM

We cannot begin to imagine the hole in your hearts right now but knowing that God will be with you as you walk through this sorrow will give you hope. Embrace your family and know that "all is well". We will pray and think of you often.
Love, Richard & Ann Harrison

Posted by: Richard & Ann Harrison at January 12, 2008 08:57 AM

Carey & Family,

Words cannot describe the feelings that you must be having at this time. Please know however, that all my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am sorry that I will not be able to attend the funeral as I will be at work. I have valued the friendship I had with Courtney and will always remember the times at HSC and the Fire Department as well as the personal memories. May God bless you with His hand of comfort in this and the coming days.

Tim Seamster

Posted by: Tim Seamster at January 12, 2008 08:55 AM

POLLY,GURNEY & FAMILY,

TODAY AND THE DAYS AHEAD, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WILL BE WITH CONTINUALLY.WE DON'T CLAIM TO KNOW THE LOSS YOU ARE FEELING AND WE KNOW THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN SAY, EXCEPT HOW SORRY WE ARE AND IF THERE IS EVER ANYTHING WE CAN DO, PLEASE LET US KNOW!

Posted by: vicki halon, bill thompson at January 12, 2008 08:25 AM

Dear Mr and Mrs Cowling and family,

There are no words to say how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Sherri, Keith, Heather, Taylor and Graham Jones

Posted by: Sherri Jones at January 12, 2008 07:21 AM

Dear Polly and Gurney,

My heart aches for your loss. This is not the way things happens. Share your love with your other kids and enjoy them as if they are all there forever. See you soon and in better times.

Your buddy,

Rick Martinez
HMA '64

Posted by: Rick Martinez at January 12, 2008 06:35 AM

Gurney,Polly,and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time in your lives. Please accept our deepest sympathy and find comfort in God's loving arms. We all have some really good memories of the time shared with Courtney.
Bill and Nancy Fidler
Josh Sheffield
Nick Sheffield

Posted by: Nancy Fidler at January 12, 2008 12:17 AM

Dear Polly and Gurney & family,
We would like to express our deepest heartfelt
sympathy for the tragic loss of your son. I know there really are no comforting words , but please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Liz Daughtrey & family and
JoAnne D. Dunker & family

Posted by: Liz Daughtrey at January 11, 2008 09:59 PM

Dear Cowling Family,
You are in prayers! May God bring healing to your hearts and joy back into your lives. May you find comfort in God's love and in your family and friends that care so much.

Posted by: Maxine Harrup, Tamara Banty and Rachel Daughtry at January 11, 2008 09:59 PM

Dear Gurney,Polly and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May you find some comfort from the love and prayers from your family and friends.
With love and sympathy,
Benny, Gloria and Nikki Seward

Posted by: Benny, Gloria, Nikki Seward at January 11, 2008 09:28 PM

Flynn,Branch and the Cowling family,
There are no words to express our heartfelt sadness hearing of your profound loss. Although
we were not priviledged to meet Courtney, please
know that we hold your lovely family in our thoughts and prayers for God to grant you comfort
and peace.
Rhina Cross Mingee and Bette Mingee Bowman

Posted by: Bette and Rhina Cross Mingeee at January 11, 2008 07:29 PM

Gurney, Polly and Family
We were so very sad to hear about your loss.
Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim, Lynn & Jamie Lynn Croft

Posted by: Lynn H. Croft at January 11, 2008 06:18 PM

Polly, Gurney, Branch, Shawn and Carey;
You are in our thoughts during this difficult time. May your faith comfort you and your friends and family surround you with their love.

Posted by: Jim and Kim (Pennington) Spencer at January 11, 2008 06:14 PM

Dear Gurney, Polly, and Family ,

I just finished watching the video of Courtney and his life and family much too short. After crying for about an hour and I now trying to comfort you. Sorry I said that, but I know how you feel, what you are going through and how much it hurts.The video is beautiful and that is one thing no one can take from you.(memories) With Gods help and family and friends and time, I hope you will find peace. You won't have what you had, but you are so blessed to have what you have. I know with the love your family has that Courtney will always be missed and never forgotten. I just wish there was something that I could say now to make you feel better. Polly, I am here for you and Gurney,If you need to talk I know Jimmy is ready when you are. And this is to you Shawan, you have always been a special part of our family and I am so sorry that your heart is hurting for your brother. I am so thankful that you and Wesley have stayed so close and that I got to be with Courtney some in the last weeks at Wesley's and Christy's while working on their addition.We love you and will be here for you and your family. We are blessed to be a part of your family.

We are here for you
Jimmy and Pam Hanzlik

Posted by: Pam Hanzlik at January 11, 2008 06:09 PM

The Cowling Family,
We were so blessed to know Courtney through his time at Tidewater Academy with our daughters. We loved to watch him play basketball and see that contagious smile. Only our Heavenly Father can provide for you the comfort that you will need over the many days to come. Please know that we will hold you in our thoughts and prayers with this tremendous loss.
The Faisons - C.B., Brenda, Meredith and Brittany

Posted by: Brenda Faison at January 11, 2008 05:01 PM

We were so deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Courtney. Know that all of you are in our prayers and our thoughts.

May God bring you peace knowing that you will see him again one day.

Barry, Hope, Katherine & Timmy Collier

Posted by: Dear Gurney, Polly & family: at January 11, 2008 04:02 PM

I could never put into words how sorry I am for your family. Courtney was a great person and I will always remember the times all of us spent together. Your family is in my thoughts, prayers and heart. May god bless you during this time.

Ashley Powers

Posted by: Ashley Powers at January 11, 2008 03:51 PM

Mr. and Mrs. Cowling, Branch, Shawn and Carey,

I do not remember seeing Courtney or Carey once they were grown. But I can remember with great detail the impact that their births had on our class. Branch had so many details about them. It was like we were all getting twin brothers!

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are all thinking of you.

Shannon West Lee and Family

Posted by: Shannon West Lee at January 11, 2008 02:52 PM

Polly, Gurney, and family,
We can't imagine the pain that you are all feeling right now. Courtney was such a nice, young man. Cherish every memory you have of him and the short time you shared together. Those memories will help you through this most difficult time. His physical body may no longer be here, but he will live on in your hearts forever. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer and Mike Cole

Posted by: Jennifer Cole at January 11, 2008 02:16 PM

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Cowling and Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of Courtney. It has been years since I saw him last, but he was always a great young man. He knew how much he was loved and you gave him his flowers while he was living. Do not have any regrets. He is with the Lord now and in a much better place. You all will meet again.

With Sincere Sympathy,

Mary Anne Morris-Culbreth

Posted by: Mary Anne Morris-Culbreth at January 11, 2008 01:10 PM

Dear Gurney, Polly and Family: I am at a loss for adequate words to express how deeply saddened I am by your loss. Gurney I never imagined I would need to offer you my condolences but I want you to know I ache for you and will remember you, Polyy and your sons in my prayers. Friendships, love and respect endure and you have mine. I will see you again in better times.

Jay McGinnis-Hargrave Class of 1964

Posted by: Jay McGinnis at January 11, 2008 12:28 PM

Dear Polly and Gurney and family: I am so sorry that I cannot be with you in your time of need, but you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how you feel and how you are hurting for your loved one that is gone. Just remember - he hasn't gone far. If you ever need to talk about anything or to someone who has been through this, please give me a call. With deepest sympathy and warmest thoughts,

Pat Sheffield

Posted by: Pat Sheffield at January 11, 2008 12:11 PM

The Cowling Family,
We would like to express our deepest sympathy to your family during your time of loss. Courtney was a great person and will be forever missed!
And Our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family in this time of need!

Posted by: James and Cindi Wells at January 11, 2008 11:44 AM

The Cowlings,

We can't begin to imagine your pain. If it were within our power to take it away we would. Courtney touched many of us in a special way and we pray it helps you to know how highly he was thought of.

Posted by: Pam and Larry Diehl at January 11, 2008 10:53 AM

Flynn and Branch,
The entire CFA family is saddened by the death of Courtney, and extends to you and your entire family our deepest sympathy. We are thinking about you during this time of immeasurable grief.
Lee, Neal, Todd, Robin, Barbara, Becky, Mary, Genevieve, Karen, David, Will

Posted by: Lee Hanchey at January 11, 2008 10:47 AM

To the entire Cowling family, we extend our
deepest and most sincere sympathy to each of you.
Courtney was our next door neighbor and we will miss hearing his truck go in and out. He was a very nice young man and this is such a tragic loss. May God comfort all of you now and in the days to come.

Posted by: Evelyn & Irv Pillsbury at January 11, 2008 10:29 AM

Gurney, Polly, Carey and Family,

My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family. Words cannot begin to express what you are feeling right now. You are in my thought and prayers, find comfort through your friends and family. Remember the wonderful memories and times with Courtney. He will always be in my memories and have a special place in my heart, I am so thankful to have seen and talked to him recently. Thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.

With deepest sympathy,
Karen (Cook) Smith

Posted by: Karen (Cook) Smith at January 11, 2008 10:09 AM

Dear Cowling Family,
Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss.
Please know that we are here for you. If you need anything please call.
Glenn and Paige Grammer
Also, Everyone from Glenn's Automotive

Posted by: Glenn Grammer at January 11, 2008 09:35 AM

Dear Gurney, Polly, and family,
I can't begin to put into words the sorrow that we feel for you and your family during this time of loss. Our hope for you is that you can find some sense of comfort in the arms of your family and friends. We feel so fortunate to have known Courtney and having had the opportunity to spend time with him recently. He will forever live in our memories. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Love,
Wesley, Christy, Dylan, & Autumn Hanzlik

Posted by: Christy Hanzlik at January 11, 2008 08:55 AM

Polly, Gurney and Family,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during your loss. Words can offer comfort during this time, but trust that the Lord will see you through.

Posted by: Tony, Christy(Boger) and Emma Knick at January 11, 2008 08:44 AM

There are no words we can say to comfort you at a time like this, but just know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for your loss.

Troy Rickmond and Family

Posted by: Rickmond Family at January 11, 2008 08:37 AM

Polly and Gurney you are in my thoughts and your whole family is in my prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss. My words cannot even express my feelings. Polly, know I love you and I am saying prayers and sending light towards Courtney as he journeys to another place.

Posted by: Lisa C. Smith at January 11, 2008 08:30 AM

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Cowling and family:
I wanted to express my condolences to you. You are in my prayers during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that in time you will find peace and comfort in your memories. Until then, I hope the following will bring you comfort:

"Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well." (Henry Scott Holland)

With deepest sympathy,
Tammy (Sheffield) Sadler

Posted by: Tammy (Sheffield) Sadler at January 11, 2008 08:07 AM

Words are never enough at times like this. Just know that the prayers of your many friends are with your family at this time. Our Sympathy is with the Cowling family. May the Master's love comfort you in your sorrow.

Your Friends at Lawrenceville Brick

Posted by: Gayle Kirkland at January 11, 2008 07:20 AM

Dear Gurney, Polly, and Family
We are very sorry for your loss, please except or deepest sympathy, our thoughts will be with you.

Dallas, Sandy and Brittany Bowden

Posted by: Dallas and Sandy Bowden at January 10, 2008 07:34 PM

Dear Gurney, Polly and Family
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve, Beth, Taylor & Haley Stephenson

Posted by: Stephensons at January 10, 2008 03:43 PM

Polly and Gurney: Words cannot express the tremendous loss you are experiencing but I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and all my sympathy is with you at such a devastating loss.

Posted by: Nancy R. Burgess at January 10, 2008 02:01 PM