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Morriss V, James T.

Friday, January 04, 2008

James “Jay” Tolleison Morriss V, 64, of Petersburg died Friday, January 4, 2008. He was a native of Petersburg born the son of the late J. T. Morriss IV and Sara Taylor Morriss. Jay was the President of J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home & Cremation Service. He received his BA degree from Randolph Macon College in 1966. As an undergraduate Jay was a member of the swim team, the Varsity Club, and Phi Kappa Sigma, for which he served as president. He later earned his MS degree from the American Academy McAllister Institute of Funeral Service in 1969. He served as a board member of the Society of Alumni of Randolph Macon College from 1973 to 1976 and the Society of Alumni conferred on him the Young Alumnus Achievement Award in 1979. He has served in leadership positions with numerous civic and charitable groups in the Petersburg area, including the Southside Virginia Emergency Crew, the United Way, the Heart Association, the YMCA, the Historic Petersburg Foundation, Historic Blandford Foundation, Crime Solvers, the Fort Henry Branch of the Association for Preservation of Virginia Antiquities, the Petersburg Chamber of Commerce, the Petersburg Chamber of Commerce Foundation, Virginia’s Gateway Region, the Board of Trustees for SunTrust Bank, and the Rotary Club (Past President). He received the Petersburg Outstanding Young Man Award in 1972. He has served as president of the Central District Funeral Director’s Association and as a board member and past president of the Virginia Funeral Director’s Association. He is formerly a trustee of the John T. Wightman/Randolph-Macon College Foundation, a board member of the Friday German, the Petersburg Cotillion, and the Petersburg Country Club, Chairman of the Petersburg Foundation, and member of the board of directors for Contact Tri-City Area. He is survived by his wife Ann Coleman Morriss; his daughter Meredith Morriss Matthews and husband Patrick; his son J. Tolleison Morriss VI and wife Angie; five grandchildren Kenley, Jackson, Tripp, J.T. and Ann Morgan; two sisters Katherine M. Siddle and husband Paul and Jane M. Garland and husband Raymond; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. The family will receive friends Monday, January 7th from 4 to 6 pm at the Petersburg Chapel of J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home & Cremation Service. A funeral service will be held on Tuesday, January 8th at 11 am at Christ & Grace Episcopal Church in Petersburg with Rev. David Teschner and Rev. Dr. Boston Lackey, Jr. officiating. Interment will follow in Blandford Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Southside Virginia Emergency Crew, PO Box 574, Petersburg, VA, 23805 or the J. T. Morriss family scholarship, Randolph-Macon College, P.O. Box 5005, Ashland, Virginia 23005-5005 or the charity of your choice. Condolences may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com


Condolences

Ann, Tolleison and family,
Lacy and I are so sad to hear of J.T.'s passing. I just found out a few minutes ago. What a fine man he was. He was so much fun to get to know through the OMNI group. He made me feel so welcome. We became friends instantly and he and Lacy really hit it off. I know you have many fond memories. May God bless you during these next days and please know that we are thinking and praying for you. All our love, Lacy and Charles

Posted by: Charles Rader at February 11, 2008 12:23 PM


Dear Mrs. Morris and families,
May G-d's love send angels unaware each day when you least expect them to bring expressions of comfort and release to your aching hearts.
May we each remember that we could be that angel unaware that could LIFT YOU TO YOUR FEET TILL YOU
CAN FLY AGAIN.
Shalom can only be truly experienced as WE SEEK THE HEART BEAT of G-d's healing presence for the pain we feel.
SHALOM IN HIM,
Faye Mattox

Posted by: Faye Mattox at January 31, 2008 02:45 AM

Jay’s infectious smile put you at ease and enabled you to melt into his positive perspective on life. Integrity was his middle name and professionalism was his mantra. His pursuit of all that is good enabled him to place on a pinnacle the three most important elements in his world: family, friends and faith – in no particular order - as they all shared equality in his realm. A realm he was comfortable with and shared with all who cared to participate.

Jay was never one to impose his own personal beliefs on others as he maintained an inalienable respect for opposing perspectives. Perhaps his passion for the Redskins would make a sole exception to this rule. Yet He knew that there would always be a common ground from which people could convene into a mutual sense of commonality; beneficial to all – exclusive of no one.

His professionalism is an outstanding example to all in his line of work yet he never bothered to count his personal contributions to that which would make others happy – that which would make others smile – that which would make others excel with what limited capabilities they might have enjoyed. He spent his entire life long adding to the multiplicity of many: those who respected him as a mentor, appreciated him as a benefactor, and loved him as a husband, father and patriarch. Yet, all the while, he asked for or expected nothing in return. He constantly strove to make this world a better place for all whom he was honored to share it with both personally and professionally. His commonality was stellar by comparison. His opinions respected the opposition while yet maintaining a pre-eminent sense of goodness for that which is right and fair. He demanded excellence from no one save his own self yet he was always at the ready to help others excel.

His bride and girlfriend to this day, Ann, remains enamored with his totality which they shared unconditionally. Their union was of singular significance yet shared by all who were ever exposed to their company, their personalities and yes, even their shenanigans. Ann, this spectacular gathering today is not only a testament to Jay’s pre-eminence, popularity or even prominence amongst his peers – it is also a declaration from all of us that we stand ready to support, comfort and console you, Meredith, Tolleison and your respective families and loved ones. You cannot ask too much of us. We perceive any request from you not as an inconvenience – but rather as a privilege – and yet a new opportunity to salute Jay and thank Jay for all the good he has done for so many. It is now his turn.

Jay will be missed. He will be mourned. He will be made an example of. Yet, above it all, our singular contribution will be to celebrate the life of J.T. Morriss V and all the good he bestowed on all of us he came to know, to love and to be associated with in every aspect of his short lived life.

Pura Vida!
Skeeter


Posted by: Skeeter Coleman at January 21, 2008 02:36 PM

Tolleison,

David Fuquay told me the bad news today. I was very sorry to learn of your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Gregg Wright
Clark

Posted by: Gregg Wright at January 16, 2008 09:36 PM

Dear Ann and Childen,
Doris just informed us about Jay and we were so sorry to hear the news. We told Michael's mom, Virginia (Flash) and she was deeply saddened as well. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Michael & Karen Reynolds

Posted by: Michael & Karen Reynolds at January 13, 2008 09:30 PM

Dear Ann and Childen,
Doris just informed us about Jay and we were so sorry to hear the news. We told Michael's mom, Virginia (Flash) and she was deeply saddened as well. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Michael & Karen Reynolds

Posted by: Michael & Karen Reynolds at January 13, 2008 09:30 PM

To the Morriss family, my mother who is ninety years old residing in Battlefield Nursing Home in Walnut Hill(Alberta H. White) still remembers Mr. Morriss and his family whom she worked for several years ago. She always said that Mr. Morriss and his family were nice people. So on her behalf I send to the family , from my family our heart felt condolences.

From Belinda Brooks the daughter of Alberta H. White

Posted by: Belinda Brooks at January 12, 2008 12:43 PM

Working in the Casualty Office at Ft. Lee, I have on many occasions talked to The Morriss Family arranging Funeral Honors for our Military. The Morriss family and the community has lost a very caring man. The staff of JT Morriss & Sons, has serviced many of my relatives and friends over the years, they have always been very professional and caring. I speak very highly of Mr. Jim Aultman and Mr. Andrews. God Bless each of you.
Cynthia W. Becker
Fort Lee Casualty Office
Fort Lee, VA

Posted by: Cynthia W. Becker at January 11, 2008 09:21 AM

Dear Morriss Family,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of the passing of JT. Over the years he served members of my family with professionalism, gentleness, kindness, and compassion. My deepest sympathy,

Posted by: Bill Gilliam at January 10, 2008 06:50 PM

I was very saddened to learn of your tremendous loss. I have many great memories of JT with our firms involvement in Selected Independent Funeral Homes. It seemed we always sat near one another at various sessions and he always had insight and ability to cut to the chase and determine what benefit the topic may be to his firm. Funeral service has lost a great one here. Praying for you aat your time of loss. With many fond memories and heartfelt condolences to each of you.

Respectfully,

Jim Busch
President
Busch Funeral and Crematory Services
Cleveland, Ohio

Posted by: Jim Busch at January 10, 2008 11:17 AM

Ann, Meredith, Tolleison and Family,
I just learned of Jay's passing and I am deeply saddened. Words can not adequately express my condolences. Jay was such a caring person and provided so much comfort to endless families in times of sorrow. My family experienced his love and support that will also be cherished. His forever smile will be remembered in the minds and hearts of us all. May God be with you during these diffcult times.
Love, Nancy Dyer McDowell

Posted by: Nancy Dyer McDowell at January 9, 2008 09:07 PM

Jay was a good man..a friend...and a stlawart reminder of all that we hold dear here in Petersburg.

Speaking for those of us who moved away from the Town, but always held it close to our hearts, JT was the one thing we could count on, on those occassions when we returned from overseas assignments....a strong and familiar face, a beacon of friendship, in a world that was not quite so forgiving....thank you JT, thank you to the Morriss family...you have made our sacrifices worth something after all

Jess and Donna Fowler

Posted by: Jess Fowler at January 9, 2008 08:10 PM

Words cannot adequately express our sorrow to you at this time. Jay was a strong pillar in the Petersburg community, and will surely be missed. He has helped so many of our families during their loss, and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. The entire Petersburg community stands with you, as Jay has stood by and supported a multitude of others. May God comfort and console you in the days ahead, and we graciously add our love to His.

Teresa Weeks, PHL residents and staff
Petersburg Home for Ladies

Posted by: Teresa Weeks at January 9, 2008 07:33 PM

My sincere condolences to Ann, Tolleison, and Meredith; their spouses; and the family of J. T. Morriss and Son Funeral Home. I feel as if we have lost a part of our family. He was a true "southern gentleman". I have never seen him when he didn't have a smile on his face.

Rose

Posted by: Rose Atkins Thompson at January 9, 2008 03:21 PM

To Tolleison, Angie, children, & family,

Sincere sympathy to all of you. May God
give you peace at this sad time. You are
in our thoughts & prayers.

Judi & Alex Heggie
St. John's family

Posted by: Judi & Alex Heggie at January 9, 2008 10:48 AM

It was such a shock to hear of Jay's passing. He was a wonderful neighbor and such a positive force in our community. He will be sorely missed. With deepest sympathy for his family and regret for what is truly a loss for us all, Pat and Jerry Harvey

Posted by: Pat and Jerry Harvey at January 9, 2008 10:47 AM

Dear Tolleison, Angie and the Morriss Family,
We extend our sympathy to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Courtney Dolan Dorsey and Scott Dorsey
(SIFH, Under 40)
Dolan Funeral Home
Boston, MA

Posted by: Courtney Dolan Dorsey and Scott M. Dorsey at January 9, 2008 09:06 AM

Tolleison, Ann, Meredith, and family

We left Petersburg a long time ago, but it has always remained in my heart. Your family was one of the corner stones of that time in my life, and part of the reason I missed Petersburg for years. I'm very sorry to hear about J.T.'s passing. He is missed in Georgia as well as Virginia. You are all in my thoughts.

Grandy Peace

Posted by: Grandy Peace at January 8, 2008 11:37 PM

Ann, you were Jay’s soul mate when you two married. You gave him two beautiful children that he adored. You supported and stood by him for all these years. He truly loved you.
Tolleison, your dad was so very proud of you and loved you so much. He knew he could count on you at such a young age to run the family business. You have very large shoes to fill however, by taking your dads generosity, kindness and many more of his qualities and combining them with your great qualities I believe you will fill those shoes.
Angie, Jay loved you like a daughter. He could not have asked for a more loving, devoted and supportive wife for his only son.
Meredith, you were truly Daddy’s little girl. He loved you more than life. His face lit up every time you came to see him at work.
Patrick, Jay could not have chosen a better man for his only daughter. Despite the fact that you are a Cowboys fan, he loved you too and enjoyed giving you Redskin tickets when they played the Cowboys.
Being a part of the J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home family for 20 years has made me realize I had the best boss anyone could ever ask for. Jay has been so good to me and I will always cherish his memories.
Maria Haymore

Posted by: Maria Haymore at January 8, 2008 10:28 PM

Our sincere condolences to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family.I appreciate the relationship and his friendship I had with Jay.

Sincerely, Louie Wooten

Posted by: Louie & Beth Wooten at January 8, 2008 10:10 PM

Dear Morriss Family,

I would like to express my deepest sympathies regarding your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Bill Mason at January 8, 2008 06:13 PM

Tolleison & family & JT Morriss staff,

We were saddened to hear of Jay's death. It was a pleasure to have known & worked for him.
He will be greatly missed.
With sincere sympathy,
Bobby & Nancy Edwards

Posted by: Bobby & Nancy Edwards at January 8, 2008 05:31 PM

Tolleison,
So sorry to hear of the death of your father. He was an asset to our profession. What a wonderful heritage of service your dad has passed on to you.
David W. Storke
Storke Funeral Home, Bowling Green

Posted by: David Storke at January 8, 2008 04:55 PM

Tolleison,

Sorry to hear about your father's death. Althiough I did not know him, I am sure you are very much like him. The short time I was around you in Maui, at the Under 40 Meeting, left a very favorable impression on me of the type person you are. My prayers are with you and your family. If I can ever be of help to you please let me know.

Jason Wilcox
Wilcox Funeral Home
Carthage, Ms

Posted by: Jason Wilcox at January 8, 2008 04:45 PM

I wish to express my sincere condolences to the Morriss family in the loss of Jay Morriss, a very fine gentleman. I think that Petersburg has lost one of our finest.

Sincerely,
Gilbert Martin

Posted by: Gilbert Martin at January 8, 2008 03:50 PM

The staff and clients of Interfaith Adult Day Care center send our heart felt condolences to Ann and family. May God continue to bless you during this time.
Rita K. McNally

Posted by: Interfaith Adult Day Care at January 8, 2008 03:39 PM

Jay was one of the great guys in Selected (NSM). He and I spent may hours discussing the funeral business and life in general. He was a good friend to many and just a few minutes with him always brightened my day.
I will miss him and I am sorry for our communal loss.
The Morriss family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Adam Robinson, Jr. at January 8, 2008 03:38 PM

Tollieson & family,

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I just found out this afternoon, and I'm so sorry I couldn't attend the services. You and the family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Best,
Susan Clark (formerly with VFDA)

Posted by: Susan W. Clark at January 8, 2008 02:25 PM

Dear Morriss Family,

News of Jay's death was certainly a shock. My prayers are with each of you at this time. I worked at J. T. Morriss in the mid-80's. Jay was such a good person to work for and I will always be thankful for all that he did for me.

The community of Petersburg and the profession of funeral service has lost "one of their best".

The Morriss family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Haile L. "Butch" Gatewood, Jr. at January 8, 2008 02:13 PM

I can't begin to express my reaction on learning of Jay's passing. Our families have known one another for well beyond my lifetime. When my grandmother Seward was in her elder years, Jay always kept a watchful eye on her, something our family is forever grateful for. He was the personification of a gracious and giving man, and will be sorely missed by everyone in our family. My sincerest condolences to everyone for your enormous loss.

Susan Totty King

Posted by: Susan Totty King at January 8, 2008 12:23 PM

My deepest sympathy for your loss. I was so shocked to hear about Jay. He was so good to my father "Burke Elmore" who worked for the Morriss family for years. My dad used to tell me stories of working at the funeral home when he was in his teens and then finally arriving back home with a full time job with the Morriss organization. My sister and I send all of prayers to your family during this time. Jay and everyone at the funeral home have been wonderful to my family with the passing of my father and mother. I can not express how much we feel like the Morriss family and the JT Morriss and Son family are a part of our lives. Jay was an assest to everyone that he came in contact with. He was a very loving and kind person that will truly be missed by all. I wish everyone the comfort in knowing that the sun is shinning because Jay is smiling on us all.

Much Love,
Tracy Elmore and Deborah Anderson

Posted by: Tracy Elmore at January 8, 2008 10:35 AM

Dear Morriss Family,
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I was shocked to learn of Jay's passing, just after he had assisted me with my father's funeral the week before.As my family has known the Morriss family for many years, Jay certainly carried on the tradition of being from one of the most caring and compassionate families around Va. He will be sorely missed but I know his legacy will live on. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Mariamne Elmore

Posted by: Mariamne Elmore at January 8, 2008 10:25 AM

I am very distressed to learn of J.T.`s death.Last week my mother was just commenting on what a fine gentleman he was. I am fortunate to have known J.T. My prayers go out to the family.

Carmine Ruffa
Tokyo, Japan

Posted by: carmine ruffa at January 8, 2008 04:20 AM

Words fail, but J.T.'s love and support for his family and friends will always speak kindly of his time among us.

Mark Farber

Posted by: Mark Farber at January 7, 2008 08:35 PM

To my loving morriss family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you ..I will always remember that loving smile and love he had for everyone that crossed his path.In this time I send my love to you .Kathryn Steele Harris Sanibel Florida

Posted by: Kathryn Harris at January 7, 2008 07:42 PM

Dear Ones, Please accept my most sincere sympathy at the loss of Jay. I have wonderfully fond memories of your family,and am most profoundly and sincerely saddened to hear of Jay's passing. May God grant you peace. Kindness Regards, Jan Waldo

Posted by: Janet Waldo at January 7, 2008 07:23 PM

Dear Family

We were shocked by Jays passing. He was always one of my favorite people to work with on various service committees and Boards. He has been a great friend to our family in its time of need for generations. He has been a tireless supporter of our Community and it is a better place for his having lived here. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The Clements Family

Posted by: Peter Clements at January 7, 2008 06:12 PM

I am sorry that a great man was taken from us unexpectedly. My thoughts and prayers to all of the family.

Posted by: Sam Boisseau at January 7, 2008 04:52 PM

We were shocked to read of your loss today. We feel like Jay was part of our family as we watched him mature. Sara and JT were so special to us. We still miss them. All of you are in our prayers. Only the "miles" keep us from being there. Marie & Alex Broussard Beaumont, Texas

Posted by: Marie Broussard at January 7, 2008 04:03 PM

Ann, Meredith, Tolleison and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will sorely miss our chats at the Hampden-Sydney/Randolph-Macon games and the calming presence at our family's funeral services.

Posted by: Blake Burr and family at January 7, 2008 03:11 PM

I was so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. He always did so many kind things for me and my family. He will trully be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family.

Charles Forrest Haddon Jr.

Posted by: CHARLES F HADDON JR. at January 7, 2008 02:30 PM

Dear Ann and Tolleison:

I will always remember not only the opportunities that Jay provided me over the years, but also the kindness and personal interest that that he took in my family. My wife Betty and I extend our thoughts and prayers along with my father Augie Graumlich of Columbus, Ohio, who first met Jay over 25 years ago at a National Funeral Directors ski trip in Colorado.

Chip Graumlich
Richmond, Virginia

Posted by: Chip Graumlich at January 7, 2008 02:11 PM

My husband worked for J.T.Morriss for a long time and I have heard him say how very much he respected your husband as did everyone who knew him. I am so very very sorry for you and your family losing him. God gave us memories so he will live always there. I know how very hard this is and my heartfelt prayers are with you , Peg Hardin

Posted by: Peggy Narron Hardin at January 7, 2008 01:30 PM

My condolences to the Morriss family. Jay will be missed.

Posted by: Jack Rosenstock at January 7, 2008 01:18 PM

My thoughts are with you all. I admired Mr. Morriss so much. He was great to work for and I learned so much while I was at J. T. Morriss & Son. His was a life well spent.

Posted by: Kim (Owen) Hemphill at January 7, 2008 12:28 PM

With deepest sympathy
Joe and Mary Jayne

Posted by: Joseph W. Teague at January 7, 2008 11:13 AM

Ann and family

I am sorry you and your family have to experience this part of life's cycle, particularly so harshly. My memories of JT, from high school through the times he helped our family through the death of parents, are that he was a solid, compassionate and genuine presence, willing to assist in whatever way possible. My parents held him and his father with the same fondness. May you and your family find the peace that will allow you to grieve his death - and remember his life.

Posted by: Jim Powell at January 7, 2008 11:09 AM

Dear Ann, Tolleison, Meredith, and family,
I am saddened to hear of your loss. I remember Mr. Morris from my school days at St. Vincent. He always seemed to be there if the school needed him. He was a great man with a kind heart. He will be deeply missed.

Dr. Jamie L. Higley

Posted by: Dr. Jamie L. Higley, D.C. at January 7, 2008 10:48 AM

I always felt very secure working with JT. His respect and compassion for families in grief was of great comfort to them and to me. He was a good man, a good neighbor and a friend. I know that I have missed his presence since moving from the area. Rest my friend you were always appreciated by this pastor.

Posted by: Don Campbell at January 7, 2008 10:39 AM

On behalf of myself and the staff of Wood Funeral Service, we have lost a true friend of the funeral proffesion. Jay was well respected not only in the Petersburg community, but to all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Glenn Wood
Wood Funeral Service
Chase City, VA

Posted by: Glenn Wood at January 7, 2008 10:27 AM

I am so thankful to have known your father. He was truly caring!

Posted by: Bonnie at January 7, 2008 10:13 AM

Dear Tolleison, Ann and family,

Jay has been a blessing to all who knew him, and we are grateful to have been among those his life has touched. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers since the moment we heard the sad news. You have our most heartfelt and deepest sympathy.

Michelle & Darrell Olgers

Posted by: Michelle & Darrell Olgers at January 7, 2008 10:11 AM

Carl and I would like to express our sympathy to the family of Jay for their loss. We were in the Petersburg JayCees with him in the 80's and Carl worked on various civic projects with him at that time. We were saddened to learn of his passing and want you to know that the family is in our thoughts and prayers. The community has lost one of its' pillars. With Sympathy, SUSAN & CARL MASON

Posted by: SUSAN & CARL MASON at January 7, 2008 09:27 AM

To the Morris family and staff of J. T. Morris & Son Funeral Home, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Jay was a great person and will be missed by those of us in funeral service.

Posted by: Jeannette Nance Baylor, Marks-Bristow Funeral Home, Tappahannock at January 7, 2008 08:55 AM

Our heart felt sympathy is extended to the Morriss Family and staff of the J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home. Jay was a good friend and great man and will truly be missed.

Posted by: Thomas Gale & Gerald Sellers of the Currie Funeral Home, Kilmarnock, VA at January 7, 2008 08:04 AM

Tolleison and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. We, members of the Shenandoah Valley Funeral Directors Association, feel we have lost a great friend and colleague in funeral service. May you forever find solace in the fact he was a good man and thougthful funeral director. Ray Sloan, President 07-08.

Posted by: Ray Sloan at January 7, 2008 07:07 AM

My sincerest condolences to the Morris family.

Even though I've had very little contact with JT over the years.
Still have fond memoirs of our High School years playing sports at PHS. Seems like only yesterday.

Billy Elder
Bangkok, Thailand

Posted by: William S. Elder at January 7, 2008 12:23 AM

Tolleison and family,
We were was shocked and sadden to learn of the death of J.T. I was only privileged to work with him on the sale of the VFDA property and found he was always the ultimate professional. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Please do not hesitate to call if we can be of any assistance, personally or professionally during this time of loss.

Keister & Laura Whitt and the entire staff of Wrenn-Yeatts Funeral Homes
Danville, Virginia

Posted by: Keister Whitt at January 6, 2008 11:16 PM

Ann, Meredith and Tolleison,

I was very sad to hear the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Chris and Kay Hargrave

Posted by: Chris Hargrave at January 6, 2008 09:49 PM

Dear Ann, Janie, Kathy and families -
The Morriss and Beck families go back many years: a loss in either family is deeply felt in both. I can't put into words my reaction to Jay's passing. To me, he was always that "extra" big brother that I loved - the one who called me Tigerlily for as long as I can remember! (neither he or I were ever sure why!) I'm so thankful I had the chance to see Jay and Ann at the Mega Reunion, and give hugs. Please know that all us Becks are with you in spirit (at least one will be there in person) and are thinking about you at this difficult time. My love and prayers to you all - Susan

Posted by: Susan Beck Folkins at January 6, 2008 09:25 PM

My prayers and sympathies are extended to the Morriss family. Jay was a fair man and I appreciated his unique sense of humor.

Posted by: Bruce Grosvenor at January 6, 2008 08:58 PM

Ann and Family,

Our deepest sympathy on the sudden passing of Jay. You are in our thoughts and prayers and know that God will give you comfort during this difficult time.

Bill and Brenda Irvin

Posted by: Brenda Irvin at January 6, 2008 08:56 PM

Ann
So sorry for your loss .Our thoughts and prayers are with you .Jay will be truely missed by many .

Posted by: George & Jo Ann Wall at January 6, 2008 08:02 PM

To all members of JT's family: My family and I send our sincere and continued thoughts and prayers. JT was such a "comforter" during the times he and his fine staff assisted us. The name "Morriss" has always been respected throughout the Tri-City area because of the manner in which JT and his family treated people who depended upon the Morriss family to be there during difficult and sad times. May God's Love surround you and give you peace and understanding in the days ahead. With Sincere Sympathy, Fay Pritchett Godwin

Posted by: FAY PRITCHETT GODWIN at January 6, 2008 07:40 PM

Dear Meredith, Tolleison, Angie and family,
I hope that God is holding you and your families with a strong grip through this most saddening time. Please know that my prayers are with you and your families and my deepest sympathy is felt for you now.

Elizabeth "Libby" Daniel Faulkner SVdeP'90

Posted by: Elizabeth "Libby" Daniel Faulkner at January 6, 2008 06:56 PM

Dear Morriss Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to each and every one of you. May God be with you all during this trying time.

Sincerely,
Tommy and Mary Beth

Posted by: Tommy and Mary Beth Stech at January 6, 2008 06:46 PM

I knew jay because he bought gas where I work (at Parham's Texaco). He was a good person and I'm sorry about his death.

Posted by: CURTIS DAVID ROBERTSON at January 6, 2008 06:43 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Jay was so special to so many people far and wide and was always so willing to lend a helping hand.Tolleison and Angie, as well as your entire family, I know the great void that will be left in your life, please rely on your wonderful memories of happier times.
Much love and many prayers for your difficult days ahead.
Arie Fenderson Blankenship

Posted by: Arie Fenderson Blankenship at January 6, 2008 06:13 PM

Dear Ann, Carl and I were so sorry to hear of Jay's death. We both enjoyed knowing him over the years. He was a fine person and a tremendous friend to all who knew him. You have our deepest sympathy.

Ruth Keller

Posted by: Carl and Ruth Keller at January 6, 2008 05:37 PM

Tollieson and Family,
I was so saddened to hear about J.T.'s passing. Please know that you and your entire family are in my prayers. Your dad did such a phenomenal job at making others feel at ease during their personal times of loss. It is my sincere hope that you and your family will find strength and comfort during this difficult time, just knowing what a profound impact your father had on others.

Posted by: Caroline Burton Conner at January 6, 2008 04:55 PM

Tolleison,

Although, I only met your father on a few occasions it was obvious how his generosity and glow extended far beyond the business. It was nice to have met him and see first hand the influence he has had on you. I think I speak for many people in saying that we have lost a good man, father, friend and that he will be sorely missed.

BJ Johns and Family

Posted by: The Johns Family at January 6, 2008 02:44 PM

Kathy and family...Over the years I dealt with JT on the passing of my grandparents, father and aunts and uncles. He was always kind, compassionate and caring and helped me through many dark days. He leaves behind a wonderful legacy. You have my deepest sympathy and condolences.

Bill Dozier PHS'65

Posted by: Bill Dozier at January 6, 2008 02:26 PM

Dearest Ann,Tolleison,Meredith,Kathy,Janie and families, We were all so shocked and saddened to learn of your great loss. On behalf of the Boisseau family we truely extend our thoughts and prayer to all of you at this time and pray that God will lead you through the coming days. Our families have been priviledged to love, enjoy and know your entire family for generations and we too feel the grief of such an enormous loss. I am sorry that we are so very far away at this time, as we will be with you in thoughts, love and prayer and will be speaking with you in the weeks to come. May God bless you all, Gayle Boisseau and daughters Kathryn and Wendy...Barbara and Crawford Peace and sons Grandy and Scott, Richard W. Boisseau III, Martha and Steve Mattheisen and daughter Erin and sons Winston and Grayden

Posted by: Gayle Boisseau at January 6, 2008 02:19 PM

Dear Tolleison and Family,

We were so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. He was such a humble, admired and well respected man. I'll always fondly remember the times we spent tailgaiting after our lacrosse and football games at Penn State.

We pray the Lord brings you comfort in the coming days and may you find God's love and healing power in your time of need.

With Sympathy,

Dave and Jodie Daniecki

Posted by: Dave Daniecki at January 6, 2008 02:11 PM

Kathy and Family, We were shocked when we read of J.T. death this morning. We extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know that he was an outstanding man as well as husband, father and brother. We can only imagine the pain and loss that you are feeling at this time. May God be with you and yours at this time and give you comfort in your loss. We love you Joy and Jerry

Posted by: Jerry and Joy Burnett at January 6, 2008 01:38 PM

Tolleison and Family:
On behalf of the Brown family we want to extend our thoughts and prayers to you and your family on the passing of your dad, Jay. Please know how much it meant to me and others in the funeral profession in having the continued support, guidence and insight your dad provided for the betterment of this profession and the industry. Words can not express how much you guys have meant to me and my family and the unconditonal loyalty and support your family and firm have shown to me individually and professionally. May God bless and keep you all and may Jay's legacy live on in your love for each other and mankind.

Kevin, Angel, Tyler and Evan Brown
Lynchburg, VA

Posted by: Kevin Brown and Family at January 6, 2008 01:18 PM

Ann, T, and family, we were so sorry to hear of Jay's passing.We have many fond memories of our road trips to Boca Raton, Hobart and Penn State.
We are truly saddened for your loss and hope that God will comfort you all.

Fondly, Ted and Nancy Daniecki

Posted by: Nancy & Ted Daniecki at January 6, 2008 01:09 PM

Dear Ann, Tolleison, Meredith, and family - My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I am so saddened for your loss but also reminded of all the comfort that he and your family have provided to so many throughout the years. May that comfort be extended to you through the words and prayers of so very many. Love to you all.
Sincerely,
Mary Beth Bristow Cole

Posted by: Mary Beth Bristow Cole at January 6, 2008 12:27 PM

To the Morriss family; I am so sorry re Jay's sudden death. My heart goes out to you all. Jay was everything to everybody.When my parents'died, he could not have been more gracious. He will be sorely missed. With regrets, Martha Griswold

Posted by: martha griswold at January 6, 2008 12:20 PM

My sincere condolences to the Family. I was shocked when I saw this on the internet. I went to school with Jay and delivered mail to you all.(on Belmead and Westover)
We had a joke between us that we carried on over the years when we would run into each other. I live in Pa. now; but my thoughts are with you all. The world has lost another fine person.

Posted by: Bernard King at January 6, 2008 11:46 AM

Ann and family,
Jay's committment to his family, friends, and Petersburg will serve as inspiration to me and others in the community as his memory lives on. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gil, Carolyn, and Justin Entzminger

Posted by: Gil Entzminger at January 6, 2008 11:13 AM

I would like to express my most sincere condolences to Tolleison and this family who have helped myself and countless others through similar times. Please take comfort and solace in the knowledge that the community you have tirelessly served for so many years stands with you in this time of great sorrow. Steve Story and Family-

Posted by: Steve Story at January 6, 2008 10:10 AM

Dear Morriss Family,
With a comforting hand, Jay was always with us during some of our darkest hours. In all our troubles pasts and all of our troubles yet to come, we will never find a better friend.
God Bless you.
Respectfully
T.H.Barrett
Petersburg Fire Dept.

Posted by: Tommy Barrett at January 6, 2008 08:22 AM

Dear Morriss Family,

I wish to extend my sympathy to each of you for the loss of JT. I struggle to articulate how much his assistance meant to me and my family just two short weeks ago when he provided coverage at my grandfather's funeral. I do believe it may have been the first funeral at which I have seen my father seated in my lifetime. At quite a busy time of year he went out of his way to support my family, and my father, Frankie, especially. This, clearly, is just one of the countless instances of JT giving his time and effort to other people, organizations and causes. I have no doubt that his influence on each of you will carry on likewise indefinitely in the future. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Nikki Sheridan

Posted by: Nikki Sheridan at January 6, 2008 12:47 AM

Tolleison,
Pat and I send you and your family our love, thoughts, and prayers. We had the pleasure of talking with your Dad at the PHS Mega Reunion last fall. He certainly served our community and our family well over the years. I know he's proud of the on-going traditions of caring and concern that you, your family and the firm continue to exhibit.

May God be with you and comfort you.

Ed & Pat Price

Posted by: Ed Price at January 5, 2008 10:20 PM

Dear Tollieson, Angie, Kenley, JT and Annie,

Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. You are in our prayers.

Posted by: Matthew and Dell Bottone at January 5, 2008 09:15 PM

Dear Tolleison, Janie, Ann and Family,

I was saddened to hear of Jay's passing. Sending love your way.

Michele Richard Bustamante

Posted by: Michele Richard Bustamante at January 5, 2008 06:24 PM

Kathy, Ann and family...I am so grateful to have had a time to chat with JT at the Mega reunion and this is such a hard reminder that each day is a gift. He was always such a gentleman and one of the kindest people I have ever known. He served so many people for so long and did it so well and he leaves a wonderful legacy to youall...his family, his friends, his co-workers, and our hometown. I send my deepest sympathy, with prayers for God's strength to sustain you during this time and the days ahead.
Penny Dudley Sampson PHS '65

Posted by: Penny Dudley Sampson at January 5, 2008 05:24 PM

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