OUR DEAR~SNOWBALL~OUR HEARTS JUST ACHE SO BAD.SOMETIMES WE FEEL LIKE WE CAN'T GO ON.YOU LEFT US IN A BLINK OF AN EYE& IT WAS NOTHING ANYONE COULD DO.WHAT WE WOULD GIVE JUST TO SEE YOUR SWEET FACE&HUG YOU ONCE MORE!!
YOU WILL FOREVER BE AROUND US *OUR ANGEL*WATCHING OVER US.LIKE WE WATCHED OVER YOU
WHEN YOU WERE HERE.~GOD REALLY BLESSED US WITH THE LITTLE TIME WE HAD WITH YOU.WHICH GOD GAVE US ANOTHER WONDERFUL SON~.WHOM WE LOVED VERY MUCH!
YOU WERE THE GREATEST.WE WERE SO VERY PROUD OF YOU IN MANY WAYS.
YOU SHOWED YOUR SUPPOSE TO BE REAL FAMILY&FRIENDS
JUST WHAT YOU WERE ALL ABOUT.NO MORE TEARS DO YOU SHED IN SILENTS OVER THEM.I'M PRAYING THAT THEY ALL GET THEIR PAYBACK FOR ALL OF THE YEARS.NONE OF THEM KNEW YOU OR CARED TO KNOW YOU.YOUR NATURAL FATHER WAS JUST A SPERM DONOR.HIS DAY WILL COME!SO WILL ALL OF YOUR SO CALLED FAMILY.GOD WILL JUDGE THEM FOR THEIR THE LIES,THE NAME CALLING&ECT.PLUS ALL OF THE YEARS OF PAIN THEY PUT UPON YOUR HEART.JEALOUSY OF YOU BECOMING A REAL MAN.SURE SHOWED THEM OUT TO BE *NOBODIES*THEY ARE VERY EVIL PEOPLE.GOD CAN'T STAND EVIL WAYS IN PEOPLE.THEY WILL HAVE TO STAND BEFORE GOD ON JUDGEMENT DAY! WHEN HE ASK THEM WHY DID YOU TREAT YOUR ON FLESH&BLOOD SO CRUEL?THEIR MOUTHS WILL JUST DROP OPEN.NO WORDS CAN THEY SPEAK.THE ONLY THING WE CAN SAY TO THEM .IS WE ALL FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOU ALL.ONLY BECAUSE,YOU ALL MISSED OUT ON A LOVING,CARING MAN TO ALL PEOPLE.HE MUST HAVE GOT HIS LOVING WAYS FROM HIS REAL DEAR NATURAL MOTHER.WHICH HE'S WITH HER IN HEAVEN NOW.~SNOWBALL IS HAPPY TOO.
MY DEAR DAUGHTER TAMMY&GRANDSON DUSTIN.YOU BOTH DID ALL YOU COULD.ATLEAST THE LAST 3 YRS. OF HIS LIFE WAS WORTH LIVING!HE LOVED YOU VERY MUCH& YOU BOTH STILL LOVE HIM.SNOWBALL WAS ONE IN A MILLION.ALWAYS READY TO LEND A HELPING HAND TO ANYONE.DUSTIN YOU WERE ALWAYS PROUD TO CALL HIM DAD.WHICH HE LOVED.HE ALSO TAUGHT YOU TO BECOME A REAL MAN.GRANNY&PAPA ARE SO SORRY FOR ALL YOU GOING THRU.
MR.& MRS DUNN THE ONLY REAL PARENTS SNOWBALL EVER KNEW.
OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU BOTH& YOUR FAMILY.GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR CHRISTIAN&CARING WAYS.
PLUS BEING SO LOVING PARENTS TO SNOWBALL.HE WAS SO HAPPY TO HAVE YOU FOR PARENTS.HE TALKED ABOUT YOU ALL SO MUCH!HE LOVED YOU SO VERY MUCH.

TAMMY,

I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF JAMES.I WILL MISS PLAYING AROUND WITH HIM. YOU KNOW WE WILL ALL MISS HIM. YOU KNOW I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT.YOU WILL STAY IN OUR PRAYERS.WE HELP YOU THROUGH THIS.WE LOVE YOU ANDS HOPE TO SEE SOON.

To James, my love and my life, you changed me in so many ways. I will always love and miss you. You use to tell me not to pay attention to what your family would say or do because they could not stand to see us happy and to achieve what we did in the short time we had together. They never knew me like you did. The people that REALLY know me and knew you know all of what they're saying is not true. They only wish they had what we had. Please know I will always be with you!! Love Always, Tammy XOXOXO

jimmy you were a hell of a man anyone who can stand there and let a women spit in there face,and not put them in the hospital,has to be a great person.because that is the lowest form of disrespect.how that person can say that they loved you ,i don't know.i don't condon aman hitting a women but that sure would of been the time for it!i still cann't beleive yer gone.love ya.

Tammy,
You know and i know ya'll loved each other. You were all he talked about at work and i spent enough time around him to know how he felt. We will all miss him dearly. Call me any time. Snowball,Guapo, jim, james. We all loved him no matter what name he used. He was my buddy. I wish i could have spent more time with him but i will see him soon enough. i really miss him, and wood do anything to say goodbye. Me goin to another job i feel like im forgettin him in a way but everyday i think of him and i can still see his face. we always joked around and im gonna miss it. your in my prayers and you know you can call anytime. im so sorry for the loss and he will be dearly missed. love ya'll. keep in touch. miss ya snowball. i guess i gotta tattoo tears for ya now. your ass is fired. lol. i had a good one. wont mind havin a better one. be easy buddy. bye.

Tammy,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much you & James loved each other. James will always be remembered in the hearts of the many people he touched. Allow yourself to grieve and your faith, family, & friends will help you get through this. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Much Love,

Dee & Wesley

TAMMY
WISH I COULD REMOVE THE HURT, YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS

The Cairnes Family
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of snowball. He will be truly missed. Just remember that he's gone to a much better place. We will keep everyone in our prayers.

Dear Tammy,
We are so very sorry to hear about the passing of James. He was such a dear man. I will miss the times we spent in Wal-mart late at night just standing around talking. Even those times when he just had that look like ya'll done yet. I still think about all those times we talked about having a cookout and he said "Ah,you won't come all the way out there". I am so very sorry that we never got that chance. Always remember the good times you two spent together. Call me whenever you need to just talk. I pray that each day will get easier for you to handle. Just know that he will always be in your heart. Take care girl. Love ya my dear friend.

Jimmy i am so sorry that you parted before we got to see eachother again,it sure has been a very long time since we have seen each other,but i do remember you and i am sure that you would have remember me to if you would have had the chance,you know it is a very sad thing to be here one min. and be gone the next,but we all come in to this world and we know that we all have to leave,sometimes sooner then what we want to or sometimes sooner then what we exspact,we all just have to be ready in our heart's with God so that when that day dose come we will be ready for it,and i hope and pray that you were right with God,i beleave in my heart you were and you are sitting up there in heaven looking down at us smiling,and waiting on us,well you can bet that i am going to do everything i can to be there with you cuz.i beleave with all my heart that i am going to heaven to,and i will wait for that day to come were we will see each other again.I love you and miss you so much!!!!!!!!!See you soon your cuz. Catherine

Tammy, my prayers are with you at this time. I saw how much you two loved each other. James was a good man. I will miss seeing him around. If you need anything, just call or you know where I live come stay a while. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Tammy,

We all know how much James loved you and you him. We know you will miss him terribly and so will we. He was always there when we needed anything. That was how He was for everyone. He was truly a great man and helped everyone and anything he came across. We all look forward till we meet again in Heaven. Take care Tammy, be strong and you shall go on. This is what James would have wanted you to do.
We Love You Tammy,
Rob & Helen

Tammy, I am so sorry for your sudden loss. Just remember that God has taken another Angel to look out for you. Love you and miss you. Wish I could be there for you during this hard time.

Sunny,Roxanne,

I am so sorry for your loss if there is any thing I can do for you all please let me know.I am sure snowball will be truley missed, just be strong thats the way snowball would have wanted it.

Hi My Love -
I so wish I could be there for your service. We both know that I should stay in Florida, so I will go to the lake and have my own service for you. I miss your voice-your smile-your contaigous laugh and our long talks. I will meet you in Heaven when God is ready for me. Your tender heart was so precious to me. I still will keep your pictures on my car dash. You always laughed at me for that. I will see your face every day and talk to you every day. I guess I will send Runt your Christmas present. After all, you picked it out. It can be a good-bye present to him from you. I know he will love it. I love you Jimmy. We never said good-bye to each other.We always said "later", so. . . . Later, my love!
Love, Debbie

Tammy, I wish you comfort for the loss of James..I know you both loved each other so deeply.You were made for each other "soul/heart mates." Keep the faith Tammy,you will get through this..remember James is just physically gone but not spiritually..he is in your HEART always.

Jame's Family..My sincere condolences to you all.

Love ya ,Tammy!

I am very sorry for your loss.

Tammy, I am so sorry for your loss, it is hard to lose someone you love as much as you love James. Know that my thoughts are with you at this time. Prayers are with you from everyone on this side of the river. Stay strong, be brave. If you need anything at all please call.
Carol

My thoughts and prayers are with the Cairnes family. i am so sorry for the loss of Snowball. Surely will miss you Snowball. We had fun times at granddaddys house when we wrer children. love ya always

Jimmy I sure do miss you. I cant belive you are gone. I dont understand what happened. But I know we all have to go oneday. We all will always love and miss you. We will never forget your joking around and picking on everybody. I feel so bad that i didnt fix you anymore sausage and gravey biskets.But at least you did get them one time.I know we hadnt spent much time together but I enjoyied what time we did. You were a sweet person and I loved you very much. Im so glad you had got your life together.You were a very lovable nephew. You will always be in our hearts,And prayers.

I would like to let James's family know that my prayers are with you during your time of bereavement. James's was one of my favorite customers at DriveTime we will truly miss his smiling face every other week. Tammy stay strong we are all thinking about you.
with love
your drivetime family!

I miss you so much. you were like a brother to me.I'm so glad you got your life straightened out before this happened. I just wish you hadn't of had to work so hard.this was so sudden you didn't get a chance to go to a cook-off with Gene,I didn't get to cook you that dinner I owed you.I only wish you'ld of been happier.I am so glad we got to know each other again,I only wish ypu'ld of had more time.I'm gonna miss you calling to see if we have any bbq.and asking what I was cooking before you ame down.LOVE YA!

I'll miss you so much.Calling wanting to know if we had some bbq.Being there when I needed you.I 'm so glad we got to know each other again.I wish we'ld of had more time,you didn't get the chance to go to a cookoff with Gene.I didn't get to cook you that dinner I owed you.I'm just glad you got your life pretty much straightened out before this happened.I wish you hadn't of had to work so hard. and I wish you'ld of been happier.you had a good heart anyone that knew you,knew that.you were my nephew but more like a brother.love ya

SNOWBALL I AM SORRY YOU PARTED SO SUDDENLY. YOU WERE A WONDERFULL PERSON IN SO MANY EYES. I KNOW YOUR BROTHER JOE ROBERTS IS GOING TO MISS YOU SO BADLY. I NEVER SEEN TWO BROTHERS AS CLOSE AS YOU AND JOE WERE TILL THE END. TAMMY MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU GIRL IF YOU NEED ANYTHING LET ME KNOW. AND REMEMBER YOU MADE THIS MAN A VERY HAPPY MAN AND HE MADE YOU VERY HAPPY. AND YOU WILL SEE HIM AGAIN. HE WAS WELL LOVED BY YOU BEFORE HE PARTED THIS WORLD..MY TRUE CONDOLENCES TAMMY .

MY DEAREST JIMMY, I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH. LETTING YOU GO IS THE HARDEST THING I WILL EVER HAVE TO DO. IM SO SORRY YOU HAVE LEFT US ALL SO EARLY IN LIFE. I WILL MISS THE PHONE CALLS .THE MEETINGS IN GEORGIA. THE INTIMATE TIMES WE SHARED.I REGRET THAT WE COULD NEVER MOVE CLOSER TO EACH OTHER. BUT THE 2 AND HALF YEARS OF A LONG DISTANCE ROMANCE WAS WORTH THE TIMES WE SHARED. I WILL TRULEY MISS YOU BABY. AND I AM SURE TAMMY WILL ALSO. I FEEL GOOD THAT I CAN FINALLY LET THE WORLD KNOW THAT WHAT WE HAD WAS SO VERY INTENSE . UNTIL I SEE YOU IN HEAVEN...REMEBER THAT I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU....YOUR HONEY BUCNH

To the family I would like to give my sincere condolences. To Tammy, I know your heartaches, and I want you to know there will come a time when your hurt will be more bearable. In the meantime, know that you and all of James's family will be on my heart and in my prayers.

Tammy,
We love you guys and will surely miss Snowball. We will always be there for you. Just remember, in the end, Snowball will have his way.