J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Homes

Lumbus, Phoebe L.

Monday, April 24, 2006

Phoebe Lois Lumbus, 70, of Petersburg, passed away Monday, April 24, 2006 after a fifteen year battle with Parkinson’s Disease. Born in Phelps, KY, she was the daughter of the late Rev. Dorse and Sella Hayes Miller. Mrs. Lumbus graduated from the Clinch Valley Clinic Hospital School of Nursing, Tazewell, VA in 1955 which began a 30 year career in nursing as an LPN-C. Following her retirement, she and her husband, Alvie J. Lumbus, enjoyed traveling, making their home in California, New York and Germany before returning to Virginia for the remainder of her life. A loving and devoted wife, mother and grandmother, she is survived by her husband of 22 years, Alvie J. Lumbus; her children, Rhonda Kim Bowers and husband, Kevin, Ralph Dean McNew, Phoebe Denise Adams and husband, Walter, Lelia MarSella Jordan and husband, Jay, Connie Garnette Moody and husband, David, Donald Glenn McNew and wife, Cheryl, and David Wayne McNew and wife, Toby; grandchildren, Brett Lois Bowers, Rhonda Haley Bowers, Ashley Morgan Adams, Jason Wayne Jordan, John Abner Jordan, Victoria Chaisce Moody, David Cornell “Moody Jr.”, Isabella Glenn McNew, Breana Paige McNew, Colby Wayne McNew, Kiley Grace McNew, Justin Robert Broom, Cletus Robert “Bobby” Jackson and Brett Avery Jackson; step-children, Robert A. Lumbus and wife, Sharon, Cindy L. Penhollow and husband, Bryce, Susan M. Penhollow and husband, Jeff and Michelle R. Powers and husband, Craig; step-grandchildren, Matthew Penhollow, Mitch Penhollow, Elizabeth Penhollow, Richard Powers, Kenny Powers and Jason Lumbus; sisters, Geneva “Sissie” Dollar and husband, Jay, Shirley Maynard and Vivian Rudowicz; brothers, Denver Miller and wife, Lorene, Arthur Miller and wife, Donna and Danny Miller and wife, Wilma. “We hold you dear to our hearts.” The family will receive friends from 7 to 8:30 PM Thursday, April 27, at the Petersburg Chapel of J. T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home & Cremation Service. A funeral service will be conducted at 11:00 AM Friday at First Christian Church, Petersburg. Interment will follow at Southlawn Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Parkinson’s Disease Association, P. O. Box 70283, Richmond, VA 23255-0283. Condolences may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com.

I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to all of Phoebe's family. I had heard recently that she was ill but couldn't fathom that this vibrant woman could be anything less than as I remembered her.
Phoebe and I worked together at SRMC 25 years ago on the 3-11 shift. I was a new graduate and her wisdom and experience were invaluable to me both personally and professionally. I always knew if she were on my team, that we would make it through the night.
We lost touch over the years despite the early Christmas cards and letters. However, I always knew I had a good friend. I will forever remember what a beautiful woman she was both inside and out. Her warmth and kindess combined with that tough and courageous spirit, made her the wonderful wife, mother and nurse who touched my life and so many others. I take solace knowing she is with our Lord caring for his angels on the 3-11 shift.
May God bless each of you.
Liz M. Stowe

Posted by: Liz Stowe at April 28, 2006 09:44 AM

Dearest Lelia, Kim and Family,

My deepest condolences to each of you through these trying days. My heart goes out to each of you and I hope you know how much you & your dear sweet mother are loved. I can only imagine what your family has been through over these past years. Your family has been in my thoughts quite often although I had no idea of Phoebe's illness.

Lelia, I am so very sorry that I missed seeing you when I stopped at the funeral home, however I did get to meet Connie. I really do love and think of you often and would like very much to see you sometime. (I used to work at Carrige House.) Your mother looked so sweet & peaceful and the momentos that were set out around the room were such a nice addition to a sorrowful time.

Your niece's word in the memorial were absolutely spendid and very touching. Your mother is now in a much better place and we will see her again, when we took meet Jesus face to face. She is rejoicing with angels even though she misses each and every member of her family & extended family.

My mother, Katherine Crowder Ferguson Rufus, sends her condolences as she remembers Phoebe's sweet & very kind manner from working with her at PGH. I first met your mom when our mothers worked together and though I was young at the time, she made a very lasting impression and I know where her girls get their kind and loving ways from as well.

We ask God to wrap you each in His loving arms, to comfort you in your sorrow, guide you through the days and weeks ahead, & bless you with His mercy. Our love to each and everyone of you.

Posted by: Tamara Crowder Robertson & Family at April 28, 2006 09:07 AM

HOW DO I BEGIN TO EXPLAIN THE DEEP SORROW I FELT WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS. I GREW UP WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT I WAS PART OF A BIG FAMILY, ALWAYS INCLUDED IN ACTIVITIES AND SPECIAL EVENTS. WHEN IT CAME TIME FOR REPORT CARDS MINE WAS ALSO LOOKED AT, WEDDING IN THE BACKYARD, DAVID WAYNE'S ARRIVAL, HOMEMADE FRENCH FRIED POTATOES AND, WHO CAN'T FORGET THE DIBBS ON THE CLEANING OF THE HOUSE. YOUR MOTHER WAS ONE TOUGH COOKIE AND ALL THAT KNEW HER WERE AWARE OF THAT. I WISH I COULD BE THERE TO HUG AND SHARE STORIES WITH EACH ONE OF YOU BUT, THAT ISN'T EVEN NECESSARY BECAUSE I BELIEVE YOU ALL KNOW YOU HOLD A SPECIAL SPOT IN MY HEART AS TOO DID YOUR MOTHER. HOLD EACH OTHER TIGHT AND REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER WAS THOUGHT OF WITH THE UTMOST RESPECT BY ME. ALL MY LOVE TO EACH OF YOU. SHERRI STUTZ

Posted by: SHERRI STUTZ at April 27, 2006 05:55 PM

Dear children, Your Mother was a strong woman at home and at work. She basically raised her children alone, instilled values, gave praise when needed, corrected when needed. Each child (hers and others) knew what they had to do and what would happin if they didn't. This tough love extended to children who wern't even her own. Phoebe loved unconditionaly. As a result her children are independent, responsible, thoughtful and loving. Her Grandchildren will benifit from the example she sat in motion. As it is with most parents it wasn't until her children were grown that she started to enjoy life. She relaxed, traveled, enjoyed her children and grandchildren. I'm sure the life she led will assure her a place in Heaven. Miss her you will but know she did what she felt was right for the people she loved. I liked, respected and trusted your Mother. She treated my three children the same way as she treated her own and as a result they also came to respect her. I love each of you and pray you will remember the love your Mother felt for each of you. Love, Jo Ann Stutz

Posted by: Jo Ann Stutz at April 27, 2006 05:31 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family for the sadness of losing this family member. Some of us remember Phoebe being at some of the most recent Family Reunions. We realize that this is a great loss and want all to know that you have our deepest sympathy.

Posted by: Cly Ellen, Ruby, Zola, Mary Belle & Phyllis at April 27, 2006 02:50 PM

Al, Kim, Ralph, Denise, Connie, Lelia, Donald, David and Families.My love,thoughts and prayers are with each of you and all of us. I LOVE YOU...Phoebe's sister, Vivian

Posted by: Vivian Rudowicz at April 26, 2006 09:44 PM

To the family our condolences go out to you. May God give you strength and comfort during this time of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love
Jutta and Frank Thomas

Posted by: Jutta Thomas at April 26, 2006 05:45 PM

MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU, AL, THE CHILDREN, AND PHOEBE'S SISTERS AND BROTHERS. PHOEBE AND I HAVE SEEN VERY LITTLE OF EACH OTHER IN OUR ADULT LIVES BUT I REMEMBER MY FIRST COUSIN AS A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN. SHE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE AND A KIND WORD. I REMEMBER HER WHEN SHE FIRST STARTED NURSING AND HOW PROUD I FELT THAT SHE WAS MY COUSIN. THEN I REMEMBER HER AS A YOUNG MOTHER HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE WAS AND WHAT A LOVING MOTHER SHE WAS.
THIS IS A GREAT LOSS FOR THE FAMILY I PRAY FOR COMFORT AND PEACE FOR EACH OF YOU.

LOVE,
SUSIE MILLER CROW
3652 W ELGIN ST
CHANDLER AZ 85226

Posted by: SUSIE MILLER CROW at April 26, 2006 01:11 PM

From your extended family at Heaven Sent Nursing Services our condolences go out to your family. I personally feel a bond with the Lumbus family. I have had the opportunity to speak with Mrs. Lumbus's daughters on many occasions along with Mr. Lumbus over the past 10 months, please remember that the care does not end with the passing of your mother and wife. I will always be available to any of you. My sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love

Darlene

Posted by: Darlene Sadler at April 26, 2006 08:24 AM

Just wanted the family to know we love you and you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless
Uncle Danny Miller
Aunt Wilma Miller
(This message was sent by Danny's request and was submitted by his pastor).

Posted by: Uncle Danny Miller & Aunt Wilma Miller at April 25, 2006 06:25 PM